Would you go for your boyfriend or listen to your dad?
2007-12-16 14:50:22 · 9 answers · asked by Bibi 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You only have one dad, and he wants what is best for you. Boyfriends come and boyfriends go, (no pun intended). If your boyfriend really cares about you he will clean up his act so that your dad can come to accept him. If not then he really didn't care about you.
2007-12-16 15:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by ravenscardarkhope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys come and go, but dads are forever. You don't need a boyfriend, but you need your father. Do you trust your father is the real question here. Do you? If you do, then you must trust that he sees something in this boy you don't and he is doing his job as your father. Listen to him.
One day, you will find a boy who doesn't send off those signals to your dad. A boy worth having won't make you choose between himself and your dad, but will make an effort to be the kind of person your dad will approve of.
Of course, some dads will never approve of any boy.
You really need to sit down with your dad and ask him why he does not approve. You don't say how old you are, but if you want to have a boyfriend, you need to be mature, and that means communicating with your father about his concerns. Then, perhaps you and your boyfriend can take small steps at a time to ease your father's concerns. If your boyfriend is worth having, he will understand that and work hard to earn your father's approval and trust.
2007-12-16 23:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by MarydaleEd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the bf is like. If he has a genuine personality and is respectful and kind, I'd go for the bf. If dad is going by his gut instinct that the bf is no good, I'd listen to why dad has his opinion. Sometimes fathers have good advice on bf's; other times, they are merely insecure about their daughter growing up. Talk to dad face to face, you may come out with valuable info.
2007-12-16 22:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by anaise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not like what your dad says or feels about your bf but he has loved you from the start of your life and only wants the best for you.
One day you will be in his shoes looking at your kids the same way. Listen to him ...
2007-12-16 22:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by johnboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? It's obvious, your dad. Believe it or not we know if a guy is good or bad for our daughters. If you listen you may end up making something of your life, be a nurse a doctor a lawyer. Disregard what we say and good luck living in that trailer park you call a mansion while catching a beatin from your "love of your life" because his Icehouse wasn't cold enough and blaming yourself for getting your face in the way of his fist...
2007-12-16 23:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by customtle45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dad.
2007-12-16 22:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dad, he knows more about human nature than you do, so listen to him.
2007-12-16 23:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dad, he will be there to pick up the pieces when the relationship ends.....
2007-12-16 23:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by wrathofkahn03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this situation before and I chose my dad.
2007-12-16 22:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by 1hotmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋