It's too hard for both of us to see a house because of the hours we work. I've put an application in for a house, but he hasn't seen it yet. I'm really nervous incase he doesn't like it.
There's no other way around this.
Would you trust your partner to do this? or definitely not.
2007-12-16 14:04:49 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Blue & Riley too. 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
he has seen the outside and i told him about it.
2007-12-16 14:05:14 · update #1
this makes me feel a lot better............next question what if when you do see it you dont like it :)
2007-12-16 14:20:20 · update #2
no..I would have to see it too
2007-12-16 14:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of trust for me. It's a matter of taste. Even couples married for 50 years can have different tastes in living quarters. And even if one partner tries their best to balance their taste against the other's, on a big issue like homes, a small mistake can be hard to live with for years day-in and day out. BUT...
You already said that there's no way around it. I guess what I'm trying to say is that given that fact, hopefully he will understand that without his direct input, it is very hard for one person to hit the nail on the head.
I'd rather help in the choice myself, but given that circumstance, yeah, I'd have to hope my gal picked something decent. And really, most guys I've met aren't that choosy.
Peace
2007-12-16 22:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by zingis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would trust my husband. I would prefer to see it first, but if that couldn't happen, we both have the same taste. He looked at our house first and said he knew that was it, but he knew I should see it. I walked in and said, Yep, make an offer.
2007-12-16 22:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by andmic510 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would because I know my wife has great tastes. But, unless you are willing to settle for anything, I wouldn't risk it. Take a digital camera along and take several pics.
2007-12-16 22:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would have to be involved. I am way too controlling over things in my life. If it was just about him, I wouldn't care. But a decision that affects me I will make.
2007-12-16 22:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, because two people looking a place over is better ...one might see a fault that the first one doesn't see...
2007-12-16 22:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. He know my taste and I trust him 110%. Good Luck!
2007-12-16 22:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bella Italiana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MY husband? Oh yeah, definitely, cause I trust him, he wouldn't choose anything he liked that he suspected I might hate. If he didn't think we'd all like it, he wouldn't take it.
2007-12-16 22:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd sure trust my wife to do that. We'd talk about it over the phone & all would be well.
2007-12-16 22:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Husker41 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i trust my partner he knows me and what i like / dont like and he know what we can afford ect so yea i would trust him to do this if not i would not be married to him. you have to have compleat trust in each other or it wont work
2007-12-16 22:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by crazyme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One person's taste isn't necessarily another's... I would have to see the home first
2007-12-16 22:09:46 · answer #11 · answered by :-) 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋