Do you have any good tips on how to make the first time good? We are both virgins and want it to be amazing. i know its going to hurt for me since im a girl. would it be better if i was on top or bottom? would taking advil before help with the pain?
2007-12-16 13:43:15 · 6 answers · asked by Bader 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I don't want to sound discouraging, but when both are virgins, it can often be a bit of a puzzle. Dial down expectations. If you know your bodies well, then things will be better. But you should definitely use a lot of lubricant--only use things designed for that purpose. So only something like Astroglide or KY Jelly. It will hurt less and things will go more smoothly. Go slowly, and have lots of foreplay. Don't listen to the guy who said that you shouldn't use a condom! Of course you should use a condom! It will still feel great for him, and it might slow things down a bit for him, since a lot of guys get excited a bit more quickly than they'd like. An advil or other painkiller/muscle relaxant beforehand might be good.
2007-12-16 13:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Q 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have wanted to be on top the first time. Just make sure that you're well lubricated whether from fore play or something like KY jelly. That'll make a HUGE difference. Also, try your best to relax. You're going to be nervous, but try to anyway. When you're tense, it'll hurt more. Don't expect it to be great. Most first times are not great. If you're expecting it to be great, you'll likely be disappointed. I don't mean that in a mean way, but virgins for the most part don't know what they're doing (obviously) so just don't have your expectations so high that you'll be disappointed. Your first time is one that you'll remember forever.
2007-12-16 21:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are in a good open communicating relationship you'll figure it out. Don't think too much about "what am I supposed to do" but instead think of what sex means and learn what feels good. That's real cool that you are both virgins. :)
2007-12-16 21:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by elims4ever 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost use protection. First time or not, you don't need to get pregnant and you can. Just follow your instincts. Have a lot of foreplay and don't do anything until you are truly ready.
2007-12-16 21:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
make the man go in your pace and make sure to lubercate becose if you don't it will be togh and use a condom. and taken avil dosen't work avil most of the time gest rid of headakes backakes and leg enjerys not you virgina or pinis
2007-12-16 21:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tyla T 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dont use a condom, you'll just make it less enjoyable for the guy, untill you've seen how dry and dark our side of the condom is you wouldent understand
2007-12-16 21:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 5 · 4⤊ 26⤋