what do he thinking when he telling people I have pushed him to do something?

Question

My husband's friend had help my son to get into a better school, after a semester, my husband never call to his friend tell him how my son's doing in the school, and I think he suppose to do it and had asked him several time, but he still didn't call. When his friend call in today, he was happy to tell his friend that his wife had told him to call for several time. If he thought it was better to call, why he didn't call? If he thought it better not to call, why he told his friend that I let him to call? what kind of thinking is that? Can anybody explain?

Answer 1

Your hubby is immature as all get-out.
He doesn't want to take responsibility for the basic social graces and he wants to paint you as a nag. Really passive-aggressive behavior.
You need to get a better understanding established with him.