he just went to his room and left his computer here. I just had a feeling to see it. I have been married to him for 32 years, and have 5 kids. he is thinking of leaving me for his friends daughter what should i do, oh my god i am in shock wat shuld i do now?
2007-12-16 13:38:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok - First of all DON'T JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS!!
This could be a number of possibilities.
He could have been looking at someone else's question.
He could have been asking the question for a friend.
He probably made up the question just to see what people say (cause ppl really do that!)
Have you even asked him about it yet? Does he go weird places? Do you guys have problems in your relationship enough to make him want to leave?
Really, first thing you should do is bring it upfront to him. Second thing is if you want to keep him, you need to be the best woman you can be instead of crying because he might want someone else. You need to take initiative, because this one quote changed my life...
"What you won't do for your man, another woman will."
2007-12-16 13:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poison him haha JK lol. talk to him see why he feels the need to leave you. Maybe figure out what you guys could change in your relationship to make things work. Just talk to him and confront him about it. Say you happened to catch a glance at his computer or that a friend found the question and told you about it. Just talk to him. If that does not work try counseling. I wish you the best. I really do. If he still does not want to work things out then he is a jerk and he will realize that a 20 year old may not be able to compare to you especially since you both have 5 kids together.
2007-12-16 13:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Showers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry, it must been hard to deal with this kind of situation. I think you should ask him, if he's really in love with this 20 years old girl, I think you better let him go, what's the point having someone who's falling in love with someone else. If you don't want to lose him,no offense I think maybe after having five kids, you always dress casually,busy taking care of your children, maybe he didn't get any attention from you anymore, so what you should do now is go to the salon, fix your hair,dress elegantly, and invite him for romantic dinner, maybe he'll come back to his senses.
2007-12-16 13:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by CJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him after I print out the question for evidence. Then I would kick his *** to put some sense back in him.
What in the hell does a man that age have in common with a 20 yr old?
2007-12-16 14:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his friend and ask them what the heck is going on. THEN, get the girl on the phone and tell her she had better pack her things and get out of town - - because someone is going to teach her all about messing with another womans man.
Go in your bedroom right now and start packing his stuff. Tomorrow, throw it out on the front yard.
2007-12-16 13:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could in simple terms shake it off. Who cares what finished strangers who comprehend not something approximately you or your project think of? Yours going to be a mom. placed your concentration on that and not on the insignificant issues. i grew to become into 23 as quickly as I have been given pregnant. I had a super job on the time, married for 4 years and extremely planned the infant. I nevertheless have been given comments like "are you even sufficiently outdated to have a splash one?" yet i did not extremely care. Even after my daughter grew to become into born I have been given a commentary for an elderly couple whilst out procuring diapers with my daughter. I have been given the "seem, there is going yet another unwed teen mom." I in simple terms smiled and reported "i'm going to take that as a compliment that i'm able to nevertheless bypass for a teenager! thank you!" and walked away. I propose their judgement means not something. They needless to say are ignorant to the information. procuring on my own means your an unwed mom? My husband grew to become into working as maximum generally do. in simple terms forget approximately approximately it.
2016-10-01 23:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have really been married for 32 years, your grammar and spelling wouldn't be that of a 15 year old in today's world.
2007-12-16 13:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sure he will deny its him that wrote that but keep after him and he will eventually answer you. If he doesn't then keep snooping by borrowing a friends car and following him, take a camera if you have to so you have proof that he was doing exactly what you saw. Check his cell phone bill and call numbers you don't recognize or check your banking account for suspicious spending. You will bust him, it just takes a little time and patience.
2007-12-16 13:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get ready mentally and ask him outright. You either want to know the truth or you want to ignore it. think it thru before you confront him. it is always better to be prepared when facing a critical situation. good luck to you.
2007-12-16 13:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, HAPPY SINGH.....how STRANGE that your name is the same as the 50 year old sikh wanting to leave his wife for the blond.....what a coincidence!!!
2007-12-16 14:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anya 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋