Naturally as a chef I am going to be working as normal over Christmas but at the beginning of this month, my housemate announced that he's going to be staying with a friend throughout December (possibly mostly so he doesn't have to pay a share of the gas and electric.). Is anyone else left alone in a shared house situation where all your housemates have buggered off to be with their friends and families instead of with you. Do you not long for a proper Christmas in the place YOU regard as home?
2007-12-16 13:35:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Christmas
Merry Christmas to you also, Platobeenz!
2007-12-16 14:40:50 · update #1
Eve G: Actually housemate is good in other ways. Trouble is that there should be 3 of us and currently only being 2 means division of bills is quite hefty. He is a young man and I am getting older but I can't help being a bit angry with him just now.
2007-12-16 14:45:14 · update #2
You are right to believe that you can have self-worth regardless of whether you're attached (forgotten name, sorry!)
2007-12-16 14:48:01 · update #3
Thank you Quizard: You'll find I'm on here quite a bit, amusing myself or asking the occasional serious question.
2007-12-16 14:49:36 · update #4
Thank You Left-on-the-shelf: That's good advice.
2007-12-16 14:51:28 · update #5
Merry Christmas to you all and Thank You for your answers.
2007-12-16 14:52:41 · update #6
I'll be working over Christmas, on night shifts. But I live alone anyway. I work in a young persons' hostel and many of the residents are probably alone this Christmas, because of not being able to go 'home' at all.
2007-12-16 13:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Zheia 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Merry Christmas.
2007-12-16 13:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have been very alone for a long time and only recently have I started having good christmases, slowly, slowly building up friendships with people in similar situations to me, with nowhere to go for xmas.
I have to say tho, some of the best xmases I ever had were alone, kind of bitter sweet really. I make my environment so perfect, music candles etc, watch an old xmas movie with an outstanding glass of wine. It can be great, once u accept that this is the way its going to be and get over grieving for what you don't have.
Its funny, I am a chef also, and i made myself some awesome xmas dinners. Massive splurging.
I hope you have a very merry christmas.
2007-12-16 13:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by golden_dragonfly 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Hi i'm basically in the same position as you im working christmas day night ! & i dont have any real family to spend christmas with ! like yourself i also live in a shared house & everyone is away for christmas although im not anti christmas at all i just treat it as another day what i'll do is go out on christmas eve & have a drink or 2 with my mates & enjoy myself that way ! i know that at this time of year its hard for anyone to spend christmas on there own but all i can say is just spend as much time with mates as that will help ! yes i would like to have a proper christmas in my home but unfortunately its not the way its meant to be for me
2007-12-16 14:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by slyfox69 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm not lonely. there are various lonely and unhappy people available not desiring Christmas. the different day Iwas walking abode and a woman burst into tears as a results of fact she in simple terms lost her husband and that i felt the could convenience her then.All we are able to do is pray for others in want at present if we cant be energetic .
2016-10-11 10:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Working as usual myself so A HAPPY CHRISTMAS AND A VERY MERRY NEW YEAR And why do you need friends for a good christmas you have your workmates in your place so you are really not alone
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2016-05-16 12:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm alone but not all of the time, I wish you well Merry Christmas, let us all know how you are getting on.
2007-12-16 14:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by Quizard 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been a family guy for the last 20 years.I have been feeling lonely at times for the last 2 years,after divorcing my whore of satan,unfaithful ex,and I have found out recently that self worth,comes from who I am and what I do,not who I am in a relationship with ,or whether I am even in one at all !!!
2007-12-16 14:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you know you can be in a room full of people and still be lonely..think of the joy and pleasure you will be giving other people by performing your job.i always appreciate great places to eat and make it a point to compliment the chef... i do wish you Gods richest blessings for a magical christmas and happiness in the new year!!!!!!!
2007-12-16 18:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by auntdscronies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋