2007-12-16 12:57:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
have my dingo eat them.
2007-12-16 13:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Brallen 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Say, "Excuse me!" and close the door. Through the door, I'd ask them to stop what they are doing and get dressed. I'd calmly let the "guest" leave and then talk to my child about their decisions without making them feel self conscious or guilty.
American society is guilt-ridden enough to ruin a kid for sex for the rest of their life. Good rational conversation and communciation is the best solution. No punishment or guilt trips. What's done is done. Which parent was a virgin when they got married? Let him who is without "sin" cast the first stone!! A parent should remain rational at all costs and realize that it is what every teen ager wishes they could do whether they actually do it or not.
2007-12-16 21:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Question&Learn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them to meet me in the kitchen in 5 minutes for a meeting and discuss the situation.
See either point of view, make them understand mine. Also talk to the other parents and make them aware of the situation.
I'd try to be calm about it even though I'd be very angry.
I just hope I raise my children properly so they know it's not okay to have sex in anyones house but their own and until they're paying the rent and bills it's my house.
Once my children are 18, they can do whatever they want as long as it's not under my roof.
2007-12-16 21:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by Music 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't have a child but if I ever did and caught them having sex I would probably get upset especially if they are really young. but if they were 18 or older I wouldn't care as long as they use a condom and are not in my house
2007-12-16 21:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Moneyman23 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the situation. If your child is doing it with his boyfriend or a person you don't know, will have different effects on you.
But I would advise you to put your self in his/her shoes.
Ask yourself, Why is (s)he doing such? Was there any proper education? Do you have any idea(s) about this? What's the next plan without doing damage to all of the people concerned (be it physical or emotional).
Then talk heart to heart.
2007-12-16 21:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by bornokyo 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i would call the parents of the other child and have a long converation with both of them....make it where there not together at all anymore probably
2007-12-16 21:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have a BIG talk with him/her after I gave him/her a chance to get dressed and allow the shock to wear off.
2007-12-16 21:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ohio Gal Rocks! 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Give him all the responsibilities sex comes with!
Make him/her pay for EVERYTHING!!
Dont let them use their cell phone on my service!
Until they break down crying and saying they're sorry and wont do it ever again until their 40
2007-12-16 21:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by TJ R 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well cheer because I have a child :), I got married:)
2007-12-16 21:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd take a picture an post it on his My Space, he's 13 that should do the trick.
(Then I'd kick his butt from here to Alaska)
2007-12-16 21:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by QWERTY 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Get a stiff drink
2007-12-16 21:02:03 · answer #11 · answered by alskater02 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋