Ok well I was talking to this guy and we liked each other alot. We met at the gym cuz we both play racquetball. We talked for about 2 weeks but it seems we were real compatible but I decided to stop talking with him because I have a b/f. My b/f and I went and played racquetball today and the other guy was there also. My b/f laughed at him one time when he messed up when he was playing his friends in a match, and it made him mad. ( we were watching them ) Later on, he watched me and my b/f play and I would look at him and he would look at me like he wanted me and one time when I looked at him, he smiled and clapped when I was playing. We don't really talk at all but we are still attracted to each other and there is something there. Does it sound like he still likes me? He kept on giving my b/f dirty looks for what he did, which I dont blame him because it was rude. What do you think?
2007-12-16 12:55:22 · 7 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
You are not behaving respectfully towards your bf, and you are playing with fire with this other guy.
You sound about 12 years old.
Dump the bf and do the other guy (who will then either dump you or keep you dangling while he goes home nights to his wife), OR stop acting like an immature schoolgirl and get a life which has more to do than hanging around waiting for some man to admire you.
There are people actually going hungry in this world, sign up at a charity and get your hands dirty helping someone and give something back for the leisured life you apparently have.
Cheers :-)
2007-12-16 13:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by thing55000 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like what people don't want to hear. It all comes down to horomones. Males naturally compete for something they want. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. YOU need to decide what is right for you. Even if everyone else says you are doing something worng, take comfort in YOUR decision.
Also why are suitors dead? Women and men used to be able to date and see multiple people at the same time. Except for sex, nothing was taboo. This is how to properly gauge how right someone is for you. You don't go to the market and choose the produce that everyone else does, you choose the one you like....
If you were seeing someone else and you liked them a lot, then pursue it with or without the current bf's approval. Just remember if you see both of them, sex should not be an issue.
2007-12-17 11:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by The oppressed Rise again 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think your present BF is not totally filling the bill for you as your eye is roving to that other guy, which it wouldn't be, if you were entirely happy with who you're with now. So maybe you should go back to single status and follow your inclinations at the moment. You'd really be wasting precious time with present BF if your heart's not totally into him. And I wouldn't advise keeping around BF #1 till BF #2 comes along. You're just being dishonest with yourself!
2007-12-16 21:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that since you have a boyfriend it is in your best interests to not worry about the other guy until you are single.
If you pursue him now it will just cause drama in your life.
2007-12-16 21:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Spoonfull of Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this question the other day. This friend of yours is married, so you should either stick with your boyfriend or move on to some other guy...one who isn't married.
2007-12-16 21:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by smoofus70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop playing these two guys for fools.
How would you like it if it was being done to you?
2007-12-16 21:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Shivers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Masculine jealousy. He thought you were unattached. Now he finds out otherwise. But he thought he was on his way to make you his g/f. Of course he's out of sorts when he sees you "attached."
TX Mom
2007-12-16 21:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋