2007-12-16 12:49:35 · 28 answers · asked by Harry Monk (18 'til I Dry) 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not as if there is any actual contact between naughty bits.
2007-12-16 12:50:49 · update #1
I whole heartedly agree.
So with your permission I shall show my ignorant friend your responses in an attempt to persuade him of the error of his ways. My thanks! ;-)
2007-12-16 13:10:08 · update #2
I think it's a little judgemental to all be assuming that it was me who was doing the cheating, don't you?
2007-12-16 14:08:50 · update #3
of course not
enjoy
2007-12-16 12:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by banjaxed 6 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Even though the condom creates a barrier between your genitalia and your "secret lover's" genitalia, the act of infidelity is not based on skin-to-skin contact. You may feel that you are being responsible by wearing a condom, but it only protects you and your wife (or gf) from an STD; it does not protect the integrity of your relationship. If you would like to have sex with other people, perhaps you should break up with your wife (or gf) and go ahead and have the sex that you want. This way, you will be true to yourself and to her.
Hope this helps...no judgment here.
2007-12-16 13:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jurismei998 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's still being unfaithful to have any romantic and/or sexual acts with someone you're not married to. Just the fact that it has to be a secret lover shows that you're cheating.
2007-12-16 12:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Rockit 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kind of funny that you used the word class in this question . Sounds like if you don't know the answer to this, you have none. Yes, it's still being unfaithful.
2007-12-16 12:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by sdgirljen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-12-16 13:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! it still is classified as being unfaithful, even though you used a Condom. When you take your Marriage Vows, it is stated for better or Worse, Right? so, if you want to have your Cake and eat it too. than, you are being unfaithful to your Mate.
2007-12-16 12:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to bust your bubble but this is still considered being unfaithful. Although I understand what you're point is. Using a condom during sex doesn't even feel real, it feels VERY artificial. But try explaining that one to your significant other. LOL Yeah, get her thoughts on that one.
2007-12-16 12:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You call them a "secret" for some reason. Let your partner know about them, and see what they think. If you are referring to them as being a secret lover, then you know you are cheating.
2007-12-16 13:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by SWEETYPI 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, trolly. Swoosh
2007-12-16 20:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe you're that stupid! Of course its still cheating! And by the way, if you're having sex without intimate contact you're doing it wrong.
2007-12-16 12:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by India 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you having a secret lover is what classifies as being unfaithful!!! condom or not!!!
2007-12-16 13:03:16 · answer #11 · answered by Mia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋