would you kill yourself over this?

Question

if you seriously belived everyone hates you, even your parents, and family. and if you didn't have alot of friends. would you kill youself?

what if you mother said things to you like
"if you want to kill yourself, i don't care"
and "i hate you"

what if you sister said things to you like
"i hope you die early" and
" i hope you go to hell someday"

and you were seriously depressed, and convinced no one likes you, and your just a fat ugly stupid loser who has nothing to offer in this world.

would you do it?

oh i forgot one :P

and if your dad called you stupid every time he sees you. example : "go get me a cup of water stupid"

well...im not really that fat.. BUT I DID GAIN 5 POUNDS THIS MONTH!

Answer 1

NO! No one's opinion is ever worth doing something like that. There is to much opportunity in the world to not experience it because you are around negative people right now. I can tell you are somewhat young....try talking to a consular at school or a 800 hot line about what you are going through and they will be able to shed some light on your situation.

Answer 2

Absolutely not. Suicide is not a victory over those who hurt you. It is an easy way out of a situation that will leave nothing but devastation in its wake. I know; I was at the precipice once. I also had a dear friend who did commit suicide, and I would give anything to have the chance to have him back. He clearly felt like an unloved loser, but his feelings were not in line with reality, as he was loved.

I URGE you to take this issue to your guidance counselor (if you are in school) or a therapist or social worker so you can get answers that are just not available to you over Yahoo. However, I will give one reason to not give up. Someday you may be perusing random questions and someone who is depressed and upset will ask a question much like yours, and you will be able to provide insight and support becuase you once were in their shoes.

I am living proof that the fat, dumb, loser kid I felt I was can have a great job, loving friends, and a good life. I am nothing special; all I did was keep going when it seemed really black. Also, and this cannot be overemphasized, I got professional help. Good luck and God bless you.

Answer 3

No I would not kill myself for any reason. You are who you make yourself to be. And if you empower yourself to be strong and you believe in yourself then you won't care what anyone else thinks. Listen, a lot of girls are skinny. Everyone wants to be skinny. But what about being happy with who you are? You mom seems like she's just frustrated with life too. Maybe instead of fight each other you can lean on each other and try to help each other. Life isn't so bad, can't you see? You are alive aren't you? You have clothes on your back and food on your plate everyday. You probably have friends who love you just the way you are. What are some of your good qualities? What are you good at? Because while other people are good at being skinny and nothing else, you will be good at being you, which is so much more admirable. Hang in there kido. Life is a long journey and you are just on page one. Pages two, three and four have yet to be discovered and I bet you'll like those pages much better. :) But until then, look on the bright side. The sun shines everyday to keep our little planet alive. And it's almost Christmas too!!

Answer 4

No! Well, not anymore.

I used to think that the world was against me, and that EVERYONE hated me, including my boyfriend, and well, everyone in my life, yadda yadda yadda.

But I dumped my boyfriend, started taking my medicine instead of binning it, made new friends, got a new boyfriend, all that stuff, and I'm so happy!

So there you have it. I used to be depressed, and I did attempt suicide occasionally, but it never worked (Thank God!) and I'm happier than I ever have been, so just hold on, and you'll see that everything will get better too :) I'd never kill myself now!

Remember - One must experience true sorrow to feel true happiness later in life

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Answer 5

I wouldn't kill myself because of anything anyone ever said to me. One day, you'll be better than they are and you can throw it in their faces and when you're rich and they're on the streets, just don't give them anything. Just find something that you're really interested in, like learning an instrument or sign language, and do that whenever you feel depressed. It'll really help.

Answer 6

Are you talking about yourself? Because if you are, that's not true- I don't hate you.

It sounds like this 'theoretical' person is seriously depressed, and has a very un-supportive family. This person deserves better than this, because they ARE better than this.

Everyone has something to offer to the world. You don't have to famous and monumental about it.

Answer 7

I won't do it, never never kill yourself
As time goes, it takes everything in it's path with it. Therefore you just need sometime that's no reason to be sad, and that you should make the best out of your life -_-. i have a feeling your having this problem, rather than "would you" COPYRIGHTED

Answer 8

The rattlesnake was born with the diamonds already on his skin he had no choise , he is alive you don't have to like him he wouldn't like himself if he were you but ,, he has every bit as much right to servive as you do he is not liked by anyone , but the day goes on and he servives God bless him ,,he goes on .. I say try not to get between him and where he is going but he aint so bad ,, after all,,there but for the grace of god go I....

Answer 9

I am sorry that someone suffers such abuse at the hands of her family. No matter what others say to you, it is up to you to decide who you are and you owe it to yourself to love yourself and give yourself a break.
I would never kill myself. I have thought it would be nice if someone else went away for a long time.
C. :)!!

Answer 10

are you kidding, move to costa rica and never think of them again. no reason to hate yourself just because your family is wacked out. dont let em drag ya down!

you are you. family is a nice thing to have but not everyone is so lucky. still they probably dont hate you, they probably have their own issues in life. you only have one life, if you have to sever your family ties to be happy, thats what you have to do. you only have this one life to live. thats pretty much what it comes down to. some of the most successful people in the world came from the very bottom rung. good luck fellow human