So, I really like this guy... In fact, I love him. He happens [or happened] to be my best friend. I play sports like volleyball and love playing football with the guys. I love the outdoors and can fight hard. But I'm pretty girly, but in an edgy way. I either wear skirts or skinny jeans with bows in my hair sometimes. I'm have a scene hairstyle, but I curl often. I'm usually tan, but I'm white at the moment with brown hair with natural blonde highlights and hazel eyes. I'm tall and thin too. Well, now my personality... I'm really friendly, but also shy, sweet, dorky, and funny. So, he broke up with his girlfriend and I guess after he got with a friend of mine named Chelsey. I thought he felt the same, but I guess not. I mean, he flirts with me all the time and is always hugging me, putting his arm around me, even kissing me! We've been mistake as a couple MANY times and we just smile when they say that.But, why did he ask Chelsey out and not me?Is she a rebound or something? Am I ugly?
2007-12-16 12:10:02 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Nothing's wrong with you. i'm sure he likes you, but maybe he doesn't want to ruin the frienship between you twos. Also, don't let him kiss you, he will think your either just really really friendly with him, or that he could just do whatever with you without being a couple(friends with benefits). Talk to him about it. Maybe he feels the same about you, just too scared and nervous to admit. Either way, good luck.
2007-12-16 12:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy like that. He liked me but didn't think I liked him and didn't want to ask because he was afraid he'd got the wrong idea and it would spoil our friendship. Maybe he just likes you too much to risk asking you out in case you say no. Ask him out or tell him you like him even if he is with Chelsey. You might be the one he wants.
2007-12-16 20:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by BeckV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to be the one AFTER the rebound than to be the rebound. The rebound gets hurt. The one that follows gets loved.
2007-12-16 20:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by MICHAEL R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he isn't flirting.
i mean, I have many guy friends, and we 'joke around flirt'. it's like flirting, but has absolutely no meaning. he probably just thinks of you as a friend, unfortunately.
also, i can't really say if you're ugly or not. but i strongly don't think he's not interested in you for that reason.
2007-12-16 20:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by it'sKIRA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur not ugly but maybe you need to let him know you REALLY REALLY like him. ask him out!!!!! its better to have loved and lost that to never have loved or in ur case made a move at all! :)
2007-12-16 20:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was trying to make you jealous. You should just talk to him...
IMHO, I think that if you feel like you can be his girlfriend, you should be able to ask him what you did wrong.
2007-12-16 20:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Miss Lustie♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah the games people play.
2007-12-16 20:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by ditdit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard the expression "friends with benefits"
tag you are it lol
2007-12-16 20:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by thirdfrikkingaccount 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy is the problem, not you.
2007-12-16 20:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IDK
2007-12-16 20:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋