This couple from my gym(good acquiantances,the guy is 30,the girl is 23).He said that they want to invite me out with them.I'm one of the only ones that know they are a couple there,but what is the motive here?I'm just fairly good acquiantances with them.I dunno if he's pissed at me for something or what.Or is he just being nice?I know i'm being paranoid,but why would people who barely know you(save for the gym)want to all of a sudden invite you out. I just told him i've been busy lately and we'll grab numbers sometime and maybe down the road.Again am i being paranoid?I've formed many relationships in the past where i thought things were solid but i ended up having differences with the person.What is the motive here?
2007-12-16 11:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
All 24 of your names will make a good party if they all attend
2007-12-16 22:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by twistin git 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think you are nice and have a "friend" for you to meet. Just casually ask what you would do if you went out with them and if "someone else would be joining you". There is always the possibility like another answered that they have a romantic "interlude" in mind with you as a third.
2007-12-16 19:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is a motive..you are purely not that interested in making friends with them..
Stop making excuses for your decision we don't have to be friends with everyone..sure we can be aquaintences..say hi at the gym..etc but you need to feel ready to break into a friendship...go with your gut feeling..they will get the idea after a few more excuses.
2007-12-17 09:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by SALLY D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 It's a blind date
#2 They want to make it a 3-some
#3 They have a pyramid scheme they'd like to share with you
#4 It puzzles me why they just don't ask you to go to a smoothie place or go grab a sandwich.
You're right. It feels weird.
TX Mom
2007-12-16 19:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they just want to be friends? Why is it weird when people wanna hang out these days, and make friends?
2007-12-16 19:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by cin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one way to find out. Ask if you can bring a
date.
2007-12-16 19:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by ~ luv sis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they want your body?
maybe they think you look a bit of a loner?
2007-12-17 12:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Glitterbomb ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if she is good looking lol
2007-12-16 19:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
threesome.......go for it
2007-12-16 19:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by Nadia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋