Yet, I know that we decent guys are simply everywhere. Throw a dart out the window and chances are you'll hit one of us. Are these women just full of it? Where would a decent guy, like me fr instance, go to meet one of these women who are supposedly seeking a decent guy? Are these women for real? Is there somewhere I don't know of, where these women hang out waiting for a decent guy to walk through the door? Or, as I suspect, are these women just full of it in one way or another?
2007-12-16 11:20:40 · 17 answers · asked by lmspencr 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's funny you mention this question. I know women who are like this and they are always complaing about not finding a DECENT man, yet whenever they happen to come accross one or go out with one, they say "Oh, he was too nice" or "He wasn't exciting enough". There's always an excuse. Then they go for the dip-sh*t that doesn't call them or if he does it's at 2am after the bars closed. These women wouldn't know a decent guy if he smacked them in the face! Ironic...lol but you get my drift.
2007-12-16 11:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. I know how it feels because I've been over to Asia a few times and they treated me the same way. The only reason why they treat you that way is because you're white. You're not a ****. That culture just really adores white people. At home, I am very average and not that attractive but when I was in Asia, they were trying to take pictures of me and thought I was beautiful. There's not much you can do... In places like that, they have other issues to worry about and you'll find that nearly everyone will treat you the same way... You can either ignore them or go back to the US. I think you should go back because it seems that you're not handling it well at all.
2016-05-24 06:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion women and men are afraid to take the chance of getting hurt again.
We believe the TV commercials too much that all people are beautiful and waiting around the corner. The truth is that we all have something not perfect about us.
I am looking for that special person and have given up on Yahoo personals and other on line dating sites.
Maybe someday we will meet and not afraid to take that first step.
2007-12-16 12:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by will_955 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes there are a lot of decent women seeking decent men but it's not like you go to the decent men club to pick one or the other way around. it just happens...i don't know maybe fate, luck...who care?! don't we all wish to get a decent person to share life with? there's only one thing i'm sure about; decent people usually get hurt unless they are extemelly lucky
2007-12-16 11:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Just Me.
Both men and women who complain there are no "decent" people available usually expect perfection -(which does not exist) -or use it as an excuse to blame others for their own problems.
It is always easier to blame other people instead of admitting our own faults and mistakes. It's human nature.
2007-12-16 11:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Almost every woman I have ever heard talk about thier BF or husband has complained about one thing or another. I don't think these women will ever find true happiness because they appear to be miserable.
Yoda out
2007-12-16 11:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by Yoda 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
woman don't want a decent man at all... they say that cause they have to be politically correct....
They want a hot, handsome man that can take show them a good time in more ways than one...
You sound like a decent guy... sorry buddy... your out of luck.
2007-12-16 11:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by Latin G 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Show up in a Ferrari or something, and you'll suddenly be Mr. Wonderful. Show up in a Ferrari wearing hospital scrubs and a stethoscope, and you'll be so wonderful, you won't be able to stand it.
2007-12-16 11:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bob H 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just because you think you are decent, it doesn't make you decent. I didn't realize until now but I dated many wrong guys until I met my fiance. You think these guys were decent? I don't think so. Guys who play games are not decent.
2007-12-16 11:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by terliuke 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
When the girls get a little older they want those guys. Takes maturity I think,
2007-12-16 11:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by MiaBella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋