my 15 year old son was spanking my 17 year old daughter with a car antenna, she was in the nude and when my son was done spanking her, she asked for more. I grounded my son for this and want to get him to a psychiatrist. My daughter has been spanking severely since 13. I took her to a psychiatrist and they could not help her. My son told me that my daughter asked him to spank her. What can I do?
2007-12-16 10:04:46 · 4 answers · asked by Kathy K 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The desire to spank or to be spanked is actually a common one. I would suggest that you research this, and talk with your children about it the same way you would approach any other subject that was related to sex. Make sure they understand that one doesn't do this unless one is in a committed relationship. Try not to put them down for it ... many people have an interest in participating in consentual spanking in one way or another, but the impropriety of brother and sister doing this should be emphasized.
2007-12-19 07:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your daughter has developed a spanking fetish and is trying to draw your son into it as well. You need to seek professional help for both your son and daughter, and I wouldn't suggest re-consulting the psychiatrist who said he/she could not help your daughter. Can you speak to your primary care doctor and get a referral to a psychiatrist who deals in sexual harmful fetishes? If so, then that would be the first step in what will be a prolonged treatment process for your children.
I wish you well.
2007-12-16 18:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by TK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. get him a girlfriend, trust me thatll straighten him up, try settin 'im up with someone. and the girl? ummm? maybe you can try something else, if spanking her isnt working, try just talking. not loudly please, it hurts our ears
2007-12-16 18:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by ryanfreak98 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If psychiatry has failed to help, then you need to turn to Pastoral care. A good Pastor will determine whether she is suffering from deep seated guilt or simply demon influence. In both ways a combination of counseling, prayer and excorcism will free your daughter.
2007-12-16 18:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by Osofo A 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋