Ok is this not messed up or what? What else should I do should I confront the vice principal again?

Question

Ok. This boy comes up and punches me for no reason at all and then runs the other way. I went and told the vice principal on him, and he got suspended for 10 days. Then later on when he returns, he claims to other people that it was an accident, or he turns it the other way and he has like 3 versions of the story going around. Then the teachers said he's not aloud to be in the same room as me, so I tell my friends and then the boy says that I'm lying about it and he won't just come and confront me about it. Then he passed a message to me saying that I better have a good lawyer because he's sewing me for getting him suspended when it was his fault. I passed a message back saying if it went to court I was going to make sure and put a 1000 feet restraining order on him which would be good because he's obsessed with killing, and Hitler. I had already promised the vice principal that I wouldn't talk about it when he came back, but he's making it hard on himself because he's doing it.

Answer 1

I know that you would like to do something about this, but the best thing to do would be to not talk any trash at all about it. You already appear to everyone to be the person in the right. By remaining above the fray you will make him look more immature every time that he brings it up.

Answer 2

There's nothing you can do about him saying it was an accident.

Stop talking to your friends about it (didn't you promise the vice principal that you wouldn't talk about it?).

If he gives you a note, don't respond back. If it's serious (threats of violence) then take the note to the principal, otherwise, ignore it.

Assuming he's under 18 (a minor), he can't sue anyone. Nor can a minor (you) get a restraining order against someone. With that said, his parents can sue on his behalf and your parents can petition for a restraining order on your behalf, but if I were the parent, I would do neither, because all this is is teenage drama (not worth legal action) that won't die because *both* of the parties involved won't let it die.

Answer 3

I am so glad I am not in high school. Such drama.....it's allowed, not aloud, if he's going to sew you, he would be best to use a Singer, if he is going to sue you, then you would need a lawyer. You will not confront the Vice principal you would be best to alert him of this nut case and his continuing to harass you.

Answer 4

I would just avoid contacting him at all. if he did decide to get a lawyer(which is unlikely if it's only a petty suspension) he could use anything you say to him against you. It's easier said than done, but try to just ignore him, he'll eventually get over the whole incident if you leave it alone for a while

Answer 5

his behavior is highly irrational, I question his mental stability. I hope he doesn't have access to guns. Save all his letters, and just don't bother replying to him. You're likely to provoke him somehow, and this situation may escalate into something worse.

When he gave you the note threatening litigation, U should've just kept it, made a note on the back the date and time he gave it to you, and not bother giving him a reply. Keep your distance from him, and just don't say anything else that will prompt him to make another irrational response.

Sounds like he regularly does drugs, which may explain his behaviour.

Answer 6

Let this issue die. Stay away from the guy. If anyone asks you about this, say"No comment". Learn to laugh it off. Cool down, and let the issue cool down. That is the best way of adjusting to this situation. Best wishes and good luck.

Answer 7

It takes two to have a confrontation. Don't forget, you put things in writing that can be used against you.