Girlfriend family using her,what should I do?

Question

make a long story short we been 2gether for a year and 3 months.she has my name tatooed on her back.She lives with me in ny.She had a hard life,mom died when she was young and her father was abusive.She has a godmother that she considers her mother and fam.The house is over crowded.Here's the list of people who live there,godmothr,3 sisters age 20,18 and 15 all got kids.one of the sister's babyfather lives there,a recovering crackhead who is the mother cousin
they live in nj.
she once stayed there for 2 weeks cuz we broke up and they was just using her 2 babysit,send her to the store every 10 mins and clean up the whole house everyday.even 1 of her sisters said that she was being treated like a slave.Its like my girl dont see it,she's blind as a bat.I told her it would be better if she got cool with her father side of the fam.her mom fam is messed up(long story) but her and her father talk sumtime..She said if she lose her godmother fam then she wont have anybody.What should I do

Also while she's over here at my house her godmother only calls her once every 2 weeks.Her godsisters NEVER call her,only one of them and she moved out the godmother house herself.That right there shows that they use her just to babysit and they dont love her like she(my girl) think

Answer 1

Sad story..But if she has deemed them her family..you can't come between that no matter how much you see they are doing her wrong..She will have to see it herself.

Answer 2

Thers nothing you can do . Your girls is in denial and with good reasons Stop for a minute and think about this ;; In your life if love had been given to you just by spoonful by at least one person do you think you will let go this spoonful / No . You would hold tight at this precious [food] Well its the same for her But if you really want to help her try slowly by suggesting to her that it will be a good idea to go in therapy but don't mentioned the godmother . Just say '' You know your childhood had been tough and going in therapy will help you to find peace and joy ] Don't dare to go farther than that because she will be scared and she will put her guard up

Answer 3

Sleezebags. I couldn't stand living in a house with more than 3 people in it. I guess I'm just spoiled because my family is wealthy and sent me off to college.