We have been trying to have a baby for 6 months now and not been successful at getting pregnant. In the past month or so I have been compltely turned off by sex. I don't know if it is because I am tired of not getting pregnant or my hormones are all messed up or I am stressed out? Has this happened to anyone else? I feel soo bad because I am turing my husband down all the time and he feel like it's his faut, but it is not him at all. Any advise? I have an appointment to see my doctor in January. I am just impatient I guess, I want answers now!
2007-12-16 08:04:46 · 5 answers · asked by doc_is 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Yes, I completely understand. I used to make sex a chore - something to get me pregnant and believe it or not it makes it harder to conceive. After I conceived after almost 6 months and miscarried, I was so disappointed that I almost didn't want to try again ...I give myself these silly targets to get pregnant by the end of the year and all but in all seriosuness, all one can do is try...the ultimate decision is God's to give u a baby or not. Please don't lose hope - try to keep yourself busy with different thingsa nd enjoy life. As difficult as it may sound, it isn't impossible. You will see the BFP very very soon! The best thing is to pray to God ....It gives you comfort and above all, He really hears you if you're truthfully and honestly ask for something. I wish you loads of good luck!
2007-12-16 08:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by shinymoon (Pregnant again!) 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is not uncommon for ttc couples. Sex becomes mechanical, a duty you're fulfilling because you both want a child so badly. The love and romance and excitement has gone.
I say take a break for a couple of months. Only have sex if you both feel romantic, and don't look at the calendar.
I would consult with a fertility specialist just to make sure you're both running at top speed. Then you can relax and let it happen when it happens. Forget your plans, just be happy. You will be blesssed, eventually.
TX Mom
2007-12-16 08:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it ought to easily be a hormonal dip or something. I sometimes commerce between sessions of low sexual desire, and extreme. additionally, do no longer complication plenty that issues that used to show you on do no longer anymore. it is available that your tastes are changing, and your turn-ons are maturing, it ought to easily be that what was once your fantasy is now your fact, so it is no longer longer the turn-on it was once. attempt to fantasize devoid of proscribing your suggestions to the failings you used to fantasize approximately. you ought to discover you initiate up thinking approximately different issues, and you could discover some new turn ons.
2016-11-03 12:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through a fase like that a few weeks ago and my bf just bared with me...i just gave up and sometimes even having sex even made me feel very sick and one time made me sick!! i think like you i was just stressed out...after i had a mc i just couldnt cope with it all...now me and my bf try the less stressful approach to ttc...just not using protection and having sex when we feel like or whatever!! i dont blame you for wanting answers now though!! in the end i just stopped for about a week...and then me and my bf went back to basics or starting winding each other up and then moving a step at a time and in the end i was gagging for it!! lol...just take your time!! good luck xxxx
2007-12-16 08:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe your partner is doing it right! Pay attention the next time you do have sex........ is it the same, is it all about pleaseing you?
2007-12-16 08:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Adorable 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋