not really enjoy it?
this is a serious question
i feel like i need it all the time but when i am actually having intercourse, i dont really get much out of it.
i am 16, and i have bipolar disorder (i dont know if that would have anything to do with it).
please dont tell me that i shouldnt have sex at my age or discern me in any way. im just asking a question for my benefit.
thx in advance for all who answer.
2007-12-16 07:25:26 · 20 answers · asked by he makes her world go round 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
yes it can be part of the bipolar that causes wreckless behavior, i've also known some people that tried to substitute sex for love that they felt was missing in their life. i hope this will help in someway and for your benefit please be careful.
2007-12-16 07:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very emotional thing. It creates feelings of love and acceptance, and even value for some people. The problem is people look to sex to gain those things, not to demonstrate them to a lifelong partner. The fact that you're 16, bipolar, and sexually active hints that you may not have had a great home life. You're looking for intimacy and value because you have low self esteem. Sex touches those needs, but doesn't satisfy them, so you're left wanting more. I was sexually active in my teens and dated a girl that had never had an orgasm before me even though she had had numerous partners. There was never any love from the other partners. Don't look to sex for gratification. It's ruined most of my past relationships. Keep searching for what you're looking for, just look somewhere besides sexual intimacy.
2007-12-16 07:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by the dude 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually, as weird as it sounds, you're not the only one addicted. About 10% of the earth's billions of people are addicted. An estimated of course. (Magazine Fact) The best way is to try and forget about it but if u feel u have a serious answer then get help and talk to an adult, ex ur parents. They will help you as much as possible.
2007-12-16 11:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it isn't the sex that you need,maybe it is the emotional intimacy that you really crave? Sometimes,it is easy to get the two mixed up.Also,it is possible that your bi-polar disorder could be reason,or simply the fact that at 16 years of age,your hormones are already working overtime! Is there anyone who will just hold you,without getting all sexual? Try that and see if it helps,and good luck!
2007-12-16 07:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by CC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Addictions are not good, no matter what it is. In your case it can also be dangerous (think STD's and pregnency). You may have a therapist for your bipolar disorder; if so mention you sex addiction to them. If not, talk to your doctor about it and have them assist you in finding help. But you definatly need to get help.
2007-12-16 07:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Robert 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you using sex as form of relief from some sort of problems or stress---just the act of sex is your mental solution even though your not enjoying it--seek some help or sit down and figure out what it is--16 is hard years growing up you might be having sex to be popular ?
2007-12-16 08:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by southarkansas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds really harsh but do you think you might be using the sex to get attention. Do you like having sex because it makes you feel wanted by someone which in turn makes you feel good about yourself. Alot of people do it. Just something to think about.
2007-12-16 07:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you crave it because your expecting to feel some thing each time you have sex maybe you love the idea of the sex act but not actually doing it i was the same when i first lost my virginity. you people need to lay off did the girl say she was sleeping around she probably has serious relationship
2007-12-16 07:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by leyah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know you don't want to hear that, but it is true. you shouldn't have sex at such an early age. it could screw your life up. but...i'm not telling you what to do. i'm just advising you what is best. ya know, maybe this is a sign. you say you feel like you don't get much enjoyment out of sex and that you want it all the time. maybe you should just stop doing it for awhile. just have a little self-control. see what happens, you might feel better. if you don't want to listen to my oppinion, then you should just talk to a doctor.
2007-12-16 07:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is possible to be addicted to sex,and the more you have of something the less we tend to enjoy it. Something is no longer a treat if you have it all the time. If you want to enjoy it more try doing it less.....
2007-12-16 07:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I imagine it's possible. I'm the reverse of you. Around that someone, my hormones rage, and I will go too far too fast if nobody stops me. But at any other time, prudent logic overtakes my mind. I really need to decide whether to do what I do without regret, or stop doing it.
2007-12-16 07:35:46 · answer #11 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋