If you are in a dilemma about a situation, would you make a decision to take it in a certain direction with a particular *intention* leading to those particular actions, or is it better to leave it alone and let nature take its course.
Context: regarding your relationship with another person in your life. Although it might look that when it involves another person, the situation is not much in our control, but I think, that one person's intention can make a big difference in the direction a relation takes.
Which path would "you" take when in a dilemma? Turn away, work at it, or leave it alone?
2007-12-16 07:03:23 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I believe that many times us humans mess things up when we don't allow the universe to take care of things and then there are also times when things should be left alone because not all things are supposed to be "fixed".
2007-12-16 07:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Molly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know one thing for sure leaving things is of no use we leave a thing only when we have no hope but mark my words leaving is act of cowards.
Just think what u r letting go ?is that imp in ur life or not? when u will think like that u will get positive energy & hope which is most imp things in life & make u work on any thing .Just remember nothing is impossible even the word impossible says I AM POSSIBLE.
Never run away from things in life ,if u run once u will get in habit of running away so be strong & take what ever action is required to be taken.
BEST OF LUCK
2007-12-18 01:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by EYES ON U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can nature take it's course, when we all have different personality traits? To make something work out: is based on our own thought process. What we feel we're working out, may not help the situation or dilemma, but add more kayos. Even if I was to work at it, or turn away, it eventually comes to an end!
2007-12-16 14:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got SUCH a talent for that,Tocca,asking those questions that don't always have a uniform answer,that is,an answer that can apply every time.
As I've said to you many times,different particular situations call for different approches.For what it's worth,I tend to approch things proactively,I usually want to MAKE something happen,rather than LET it happen.But,there are times when that just is'nt the way to go about it,too.It's a judgement call.
2007-12-16 09:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation.
Whatever situation it's your life so you must be proactive.
Some situations require extra attention some require walking away & leaving it. You have to assess the situation and guage if it's worth working on.
To sit by passively is not good. It's always a choice.
2007-12-16 07:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by flip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Tocca,
Life should not be unguided. That is to say, we must have definate paths and goals for our life. If you are facing a dilemma about a situation here is my suggestion:
- first of all, Access the situation you are facing....delve in to the matter;
- Access your choice with the quality of life, if by making affirmative choice quality of life increases and vice versa.
- Life is a science and your a scientist ! Our ultimate goal is to derive positive outcome from it everytime..So the choice is yours !! I hope you should be now clear..
Bye.
2007-12-16 19:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by vnshah99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh undoubtedly try to make it work out! If you do nothing the other person either thinks you don't care about them, you like the situation as it is, or actively dislike them. We have to show our intentions whatever they may be, without being obnoxious. Hope this helps.
2007-12-16 07:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by TruthSquad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something it life need to be left alone if you try to fix it and it didn't work the way you wanted.
we have to try to fix it first. you have to remember that in relationship with parents, siblings or boyfriend and girlfriend or wife and husband it takes two. so if the other don't want to compromise you simply let it breath, let it be.
and you enjoy your life by doing things you love doing and if that person comes back and talk sweet talk you let them in or out because it's your life and you will be the only person to know if they deserve second change or not.
2007-12-16 07:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by frenchi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you leave it alone, it may only get worse. if you work at it, iot can get better or worse. if u turn away, it will get worse. i would work at it in hopes of making it better. why not at least try to make it better than to leave it alone only to make it worse??
2007-12-16 07:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by mariah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they both have a way , a negative way and a posative one, you pick.to be or not to be.
2007-12-16 07:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by vintagemale1951 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋