What can i do to get it back? Its like i'm completely numb, no feelings whats so over. I have issues from sexual abuse as a kid, and also have PTSD.. is this causing this.
2007-12-16 05:21:07 · 4 answers · asked by Packer Fan 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The drive varies from time to time in a marriage. The lack could be a symptom of other problems.
Your "numbness" may be a bigger problem. Have you had therapy for the PTSD, or the abuse? You may need some help now from a professional.
2007-12-16 05:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by hamrrfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of couse those issues will affect it.......no offense but is it possible maybe you are puhing away......however if you and your husband have had sex a lot before those might not be an issue.....a lot of couples lose that urge after a while....have you guys been together a long time...this may either mean that you and him are floating apart....why not just ask him...if you don't talk about it to him it will never be resolved....
2007-12-16 13:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your way of looking at it.. do not ever have sex again ,,, instead find your heart only ,,, never ever have sex again ,, but some day you may feel a desire to make love ,, BE SLOW no hurry, life is forever you only live once and if you never have sexual relations again so what .. but love can express itself verry carnally sometimes . keep love formost in your thoughts and let your heart free ...
2007-12-16 13:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may have been a month since you and your husband have had sex, but i bet it hasn't been a month since HE's had sex...
2007-12-16 13:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋