Ok I am 18, and I am a virgin. Whenever the opportunity for sex comes around I just can't stay hard, its like a mental block I have as soon as I put the condom on it starts to go limp. I used to masturbate on a daily basis some times 3 + times a day, is this a factor? Is there any suggestions on how I can stay hard?
2007-12-16 03:18:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Try it without the condom. I always find them a big turn off myself, and if I'm drunk I notice that by the time I've got it open and putting it on, I'm starting to lose a bit of hardness
2007-12-16 03:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
apparently, this happens all the time. Being a girl, I don't know this first hand - but I have had a few disappointing occasions....
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2007-12-16 03:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by djinn_3wishes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax.Don't get to the real act in a hurry.Allow some smooching, kissing, caressing her all over her body.......rub all over her breasts and nips........kiss and suck her tender parts and let her do the same with you.Let this go on in relaxed way.Later on when both of you reach a stage that you can't wait any longer , go for the final Do.That will work.
2007-12-16 03:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is common with men, you are most likely stressed or trying to rush. Relax and be carm and take it slow. It does help because I had the same problem ;)
2007-12-16 03:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Rhys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VIAGRA or CIALIS see your doc. Once the nervousness is gone you probably will not need it any more. And slow down the other or you'll go blind.
2007-12-16 05:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by Wholesale Modulars dotcom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some female stimulation can help.
2007-12-16 03:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Chris R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your jus nervous and try to relax
2007-12-16 03:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Rio G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋