Please could someone help me, i'm only thirteen but my boobs are big! They're not massive or anything but i have a very skinny size 4-6 frame and they look awful, I'd do anything to be flat chested at the moment. Please could someone give me some advice on making them smaller?
2007-12-16 01:26:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Your body is changing so fast that you are probably scared of all the changes. I bet that in 18 months things will have evened out a bit and you will be a lot happier at being seen as a young woman and not a girl. Talk to an older friend or female relative who can reassure you and explain that all these changes a totally natural. You might find that your new figure will get you compliments and your interest in young men will perhaps start to grow and your boobs will be an added attraction.
Everyone goes through adolescence so you are not alone and when you have stopped growing you will be able to laugh at your current worries.
2007-12-16 02:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by lifesagambol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have back pain you could get a breast reduction covered by insurance (it covered mine 100%).
How old are you and what size are you and how much do you weigh?
If you are overweight, working out and losing weight will help you lose some breast. However if you are a healthy weight the only option is breast reduction surgery.
And, actually, the satisfaction rate for those who have had breast reductions are much much greater than the satisfaction of those who have had implants. A majority of people I know (on the breast reduction board at the site in my source) are very very happy with their decision, even years later. I had mine almost two years ago and I still do not regret it.
2007-12-16 09:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a size 4-6. You're 13. My guess is your hormones have kicked in with a vengence & your breasts are developing faster now. You're probably going to grow a little taller, & maybe bulk up some more, muscle wise. The time to decide what to do is not now! You should stop growing by age 17-18. Right now, with everything shifting & changing, it looks odd to you-I know my body seemed like I'd become an alien almost overnight! Give it a little while.
Once you're 18-20, if you're still unhappy, see a plastic surgeon about a breast reduction. But I warn you-I've worked in a breast center for over 18 years. The disapproval rate amoung patients with a reduction is almost 80%. It's easier to "add to" & look like a normal breast, than to "take away" & still have normal contours.
And please! Ignore the comments like one who has posted here-"Be pleased with what you have The boys will!" YOU have to like YOU, not base it on what the boys will like!
2007-12-16 10:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by boppie2790 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Push ups - it does something to the muscles - Im not sure exactly what it does but it makes boobs smaller.
For now, I'd suggest sports bras as the push them in and make them appear smaller and as you get older you will probably not worry so much. Go to any sports shop and you'll find a sports bra, they look like crop tops, nothing fancy but they are designed to hold your boobs close and form into your body so they dont flop about while doing sports, but you can wear them any time and they are very comfy.
:o)
2007-12-16 09:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by Fiona F 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry you feel this way about yourself.
Some girls would love to have the problem you're having. There seems to be something each of us don't like about ourselves, which is sad.
You can't make them smaller, but you can wear shirts that will make them less revealing and also there are minimizer bras, you can buy that will make them look smaller.
Try not to cry about it.
*hug*
2007-12-16 10:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by A 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would grow to like them.
but maybe at night instead of wearing your bra to sleep or a cami, to wear an over large shirt that can not hold them up right.
there is some exercise equipment used to stiffen breast that can probably reduce a small amount of hte size.
and don't cry over your body. me- i'm flatchested, fat and always made fun of for my acne. but i'm glad i'm not obese [i'm slightly average weight], my face isn't peeled off and i'm not a porn star.
so relax, you'll most likely grow into them.
2007-12-16 09:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww don't cry about it hunny
the only option i can think of is getting a breast reduction
i don't know how much it is but
go on google and type it in
don't cry yourself to sleep
it will be ok :)
good luck darling ..xx
2007-12-16 11:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me darling you will grow to like them
when your bit older you will adore bit bigger breast..
flat chest is not that apealing.
if you really hate them, cheaper way to make it small is lose alot of weight.---but in your case your already thin, and you dont want to lose any more weight...so dont do it...
just be proud of it...guys like boobs
2007-12-17 06:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wear nice sports bras. Those will keep them in place.
Anyway, why are you so sad about them??? In a few years you will be so proud of them...it is just that you are very young.
2007-12-16 10:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wouldn't worry about it , unless they are giving you things like back problems just be glad and grateful for the body that you've got and you don't have a proper disfirgurement or disformity
2007-12-16 09:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by steven s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋