- will they have peace and protection?
- will do they spend quality of time with their children?
- will they be role model for their children?
- will they really help children to grow in right manner?
- will they really share their love, affection, responsibility, care, protection to their children?
Please.... give me some suggestions.....
2007-12-16 01:23:57 · 18 answers · asked by vijay k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
job gives them the confidence to take care & protect of their baby in a better way
2007-12-16 17:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Winsome Stranger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course.
You have been given to many great answers.
Really what is the difference between the stay at home mother and working mother
There are stay at home Mothers the volunteer at Schools and other activities. That even the children involved in as well and with the working Mothers and Fathers.
Over the Years Some Father work away never take part in raising the Children. Mothers keep home of everything.
some even work part time when the kids are in school.
hopefully your helping out in working and etc.
Every bodies home life is different
2007-12-16 10:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they will be happy if they find balance in life and work
Yes they will have peace and protection, the same as a stay home mom!
Yes they can spend quality time with their children,(some people who stay at home seem to think bc they do they are automatically spending quality time with their children, WRONG!!!!! )
You know what I am not going to answer any more of the questions, I don't think they appy to working moms, I think they apply to all parents!! Man, woman, working or non working! The rule is still the same! You have to do your best, that is all anyone can ask of you!
2007-12-16 09:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my situation, I have the best of both worlds. I work as a teacher from 8 until 3:30, rarely weekends or nights with the holidays and summers off. There were times when I felt horrible and thought I should be home with my daughter (3), but when I see her portfolio at school (pre-k), watch her with her friends and teachers, hear her tell about all the exciting things she did with her friends, I know it is what's best for her. She loves going to school. She also loves the time that we spend together because I really try to make it quality time. For example, yesterday we made a gingerbread house together, she helped me with housework, we snuggled up and watched a movie together, and we had our first snow come in last night so we were out in the snow at 10 at night playing and throwing snow balls.
I am also a happier mother than when I was a stay at home mom.. I enjoy having adult conversations during the day and feeling like I am providing for her financial well being while loving her when we're together!
We run to eachother at the end of the day, and really enjoy the time together, instead of taking it for granted that we'll see eachother all day, every day...
It's just making the most of the time you have together!
2007-12-16 09:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People only have peace if they choose to be at peace with their decisions, peace comes from inside and everyone has the opportunity to achieve it.
Working and providing for one's self does provide protection.
Parents who want to do spend quality time with their children, no matter what. You have to prioritize them high on your list. Countless children DO grow up happy and emotionally healthy with one or two working parents.
Working parents can be excellent role models for their children if they are good, caring, loving parents. Stay-at-home parents can too.
2007-12-16 09:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jen70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women/mum can engage "50%" in what you have asked. What we gonna do? if we dont go to work, our husbands would think we were helpless, we were dependent...So, what we can do is we try all our best to fill up another 50%.
That's why babysisters and school are fundamental contribution for the development and protection of the children. Thus, trying to spend our leisure times with children is the best.
Men never appreciate women, women are supposed to be subordinate to men no matter how effort we do. No offense, feminist movement have been struggled to liberate women for decades, result is far from what we want.
In brief, this what women are supposed to be and life is tough for women.
2007-12-16 09:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One has to be a good mother once the working hours in office is over.There are two persons here....one is a mother and the other is a working woman.The mother must learn to do justice to children and take good care of them.Working in office is no excuse to neglect motherly duties. It should give a mother more confidence as an individual that she works and earns herself that helps family comfort a lot and gives her a self image of her own which is good.
2007-12-16 12:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they can, if depends on the women and her up-bring, depends how selfish and self center she is! a have friends who will not go out only when they children are in care of the other parent, also I have friends who care only about them self's and drop the kids with any body just to go out, I guess is different for everybody and how responsible they are.
2007-12-16 11:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by shopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to all your questions is "yes", but the man must also be responsible. When both parents work, the responsibility should be shared so that the kids benefit in knowing that their parents love them and care about what they have to say. It is possible for time to be set aside for the kids to talk with their parents. It's not just the woman's responsibility.
2007-12-16 09:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All mothers want to give all the love to their children...working moms have lesser time..so they should find out ways and means to compensate for the loss...it all depends upon the attitude...n there are non working women who neglect their children...see lot of clubbing and partying leaving their children to the care of servant maids...then repenting later in life.....if there is will there is a way....parents upbringing has a definite and positive effect on children.
2007-12-16 09:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by ramarao p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main purpose of women/mom working is to meet the expenses of their family and happiness, betterment for their children. Of course there may be some exceptions. like forced to work etc.
2007-12-16 09:34:43 · answer #11 · answered by chidambaram k 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋