She is a good student.Same boyfriend for 2 years,had her on bc, talked til i was blue in the face about the importance of education,waiting to they were emotionally and fianaicially ready for a child, i am not the best mom but I do the best i know how, how come i feel i let her down?
2007-12-16 00:55:31 · 6 answers · asked by tahejaza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Whether you gave your best effort or not is up to you to decide in prayerful contemplation with our Savior, and your pastor or priest. Sometimes, in spite of our best efforts, things don't turn out the way we want them to. That's life.
In this case, pray for guidance, pray for the children and baby. Get to church on Sunday with them all.
Good Luck
2007-12-16 01:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're a parent, and you're always going to wonder (no matter how many things you DID say) if there was one other thing you should've said to get that point to stick. There wasn't. Now just help her indoctrinate herself into this new, lifelong club: parenthood. The mother/daughter dynamic will grow significantly as a result of this new bonding platform. good luck to all of you, and Happy Holidays.
2007-12-16 09:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i too blamed myself but it isn't your fault they had sex and that is that her education is delayed eventually she got married and had 2 more and is struggling financially you gave them every opportunity to rethink on this type of behavior kids do things no matter what and now you will be her greatest support system merry Christmas grandma to be Jacob is a blessing and a joy and so are my other grandchildren
2007-12-16 09:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by dreamweaver 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing wrong. you told her everything you needed and she chose to have sex and take that chance. just let her know your their for her but she got herself in the place she is and the child will not be pushed off on you. she is the mother and you are grandma.
2007-12-16 09:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hormones are obviously stronger than you are.
This is not your fault..... Congrats on the new babe.
2007-12-16 09:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't let her down, she let you down. Now let her deal with the ramifications of her actions.
2007-12-16 09:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋