I've had a terrible sex life, because most every time I try and put a condom on I lose my erection. Additionally, when I am able to get the condom on, I usually lose my erection after a minute or less of sex. When I say I can't feel anything when I have a condom on, I'm not exaggerating at all. My penis will fall out and I will continue thrusting as my girl asks me "what are you doing?"... then feeling humiliated to find out that it fell out and I didn't even know it, because I can't feel anything with a condom on.
Someone recommended adding a small drop of lube to the inside of the condom, and that worked, but when we were done having sex the condom disappeared, only to show up a few days later (inside her).
I tried the thin condoms, but they seem to cut off the the blood supply. I also tried the sheep skin condoms, but I lost my erection before putting it on because the idea of putting dead sheep skin on my penis kind of made me feel sick.
Any suggestions?
2007-12-16 00:41:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I've also tried larger condoms.
One way or another, I'm rock hard sometimes for hours... until that condom goes on. Even if I haven't masterbated for a week. But when I can keep it up with the rubber on, I can't tell if it's in, out, touching her, hanging in the air, etc...
2007-12-16 08:17:38 · update #1
nothing at all...
2007-12-16 08:18:49 · update #2
wow...that's happened to me too man, its ****** embarrassing, when your doing a chick with a condom on and it comes out and you continue to **** the couch under her or her stomach, honestly girls dont know what it feels like to us. You cant feel anything! its not pleasant...
2007-12-16 04:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Yeah um first off you shouldn't put lube in a condom it just makes it slide off easier, it's a common mistake most have to do to figure out themselves.
But some girls are a little looser than others, there's not much of a difference but there is some. but in terms of you not feeling anything, well not too sure about that. The first time you feel alot because you're always so curious about what's down there so you're more alert. Once you get used to it you start to ignore it and just go with the feeling. I personally was the same way, my first time I could feel every single nook and cranny, now I just feel her lips and that's about it honestly. Not saying she's loose it's just you probably have gotten used to the feeling and don't recognize it anymore.
And if the condom is too tight try a Magnum.
A good way to see what condom works best for you (and I'm sure some people will look down on this) but buy some different types or go to a health clinic and get some free handfulls, go home, put one on and masturbate. Just know that the condom itself will start to slide off slowly, but when the condom slides right off as you get started you know it's too big, and if it just feels tight well then you know it's too small.
And if all else fails call up Trojan they love random calls from guys and actually try to help you out by giving you free products to see how they work with you.
Just NEVER go without a condom unless you're married, even if you're sure you're gonna spend the rest of your life with her use a condom... better safe than sorry
2007-12-16 00:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Buster 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I would say wait to have sex until you trust the girl and then maybe have her be on the pill or shot or whatever. Yeah it does put more responsibility on her but if you can t feel it and can t keep it up then what really is the alternative? If you go raw dogging she will end up pregnant...that is 18 years of raising a kid you might not even have wanted just so you could get a momentary sexual gratification. Condoms suck but STD s and unwanted babies suck worse.
2016-08-14 11:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have your girlfriend use female condoms they are a lot different so you dont have to confine yourself in those tight male condoms... chances are you'll feel a lot more using those too. A friend of mine was having the same prob with her bf, and when she switched to using female condoms it solved that problem.
2007-12-16 10:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
buy a smaller size of regular condoms or textured condoms. Or you can get a vasectomy to prevent pregnancy, but then you're at risk for STD's. Perhaps you should see your doctor and ask him for something.
2007-12-16 00:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mischele, RN♥ 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
It ok some times it happen,s may with some if i can help
How old are you
Are you circumcised
Can you masturbate with a condom on
2007-12-16 14:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by JM-SAVE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have your girl try a diaphram, or a vaginal condom, or maybe get a vasectomy. or don't have sex until your in a commited stable relationship where your gf is on birth control (and both get tested for std's)
2007-12-16 00:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Buzz B 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you are in a monogamous relationship and you are both free of STD's then I suggest that she get on some form of birth control and that you employ the pull out method yourself as a secondary safety net against an unwanted pregnancy. This should solve your problem.
2007-12-16 00:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Martin B 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Try a larger size, it sounds like the size you're using is too small. If not, the only thing you can do (other than a vasectomy, which won't protect against STDs) is use a female condom instead.
2007-12-16 00:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
My husband and I do not use condoms because he can't feel anything with one on. He just does the withdrawl method and it seems to have been working. We do have two children but both times he did not withdrawl. So I would try that if the girl lets you...however..you would still contract an STD by doing that so I would try talking to a doctor to see what is out there for you to use.
2007-12-16 00:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 8⤋