hi.
me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex today the 16th December 2007 and i feel she may be pregnant, i pulled out before i ejaculated but im not 100% sure that i did if that makes sense :(
she had her last period exactly one week before on the day we had sex (today) and on the 2nd she had her first period.
I have been reading that it is harder to get pregnant in this time?
is this true?
can someone please help me. i dont no what to do :'(
nick.
2007-12-16 00:31:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
is tomorrow morning too late if we had sex at about 1:30pm (im in australia)
nick.
2007-12-16 00:42:57 · update #1
by too late i mean too late to get the morning after pill.?
2007-12-16 00:50:28 · update #2
how do i suggest birth control because i have brought it up in the past and she says no because she doesnt want to get fat, (her sister got chubby on it)?
2007-12-16 01:21:36 · update #3
Very unlikely, get the morning after pill in the morning, get condoms and ask her to go on birth control, OH another hint.... STOP being a spaz of a boyfriend and chill out, you aren't very responsible if it was unprotected and you are now freaking out over what is most likely nothing.
2007-12-16 01:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sayuri Asami 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have considered all this before having sex. While some women have less of a chance of getting pregnant at this time, other women are most fertile at this time. Some women even ovulate during their period and there's not really a way to know when your girlfriend ovulates. Even if you use birth control you still run a risk of pregnancy. What do you do? Well you could think about these things before having sex. You could wait until marriage to have sex because then having a child isn't nearly as complicated for the relationship.
2007-12-16 01:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Rockit 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Two weeks or so after the start of her period is her *most* fertile time. If she started her period on the 2nd (it's hard to tell in your question) than she is at her most fertile time. Coitus interuptus (pull-out method) is about the least effective form of birth control going. Congratulations Papa.
Edit: Use a condom you dope. She can't get fat from that. Being a father at 16 is no game my young friend.
2007-12-16 00:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you pulled out before you ejaculated, then the chances of her getting pregnant are far less, but still possible because pre-ejaculate can contain sperm. The most fertile time for most women is about 2 weeks from the start of their period. You really shouldn't be having unprotected sex at this age unless you're ready to accept the responsibility of a baby at this point in your life.
2007-12-16 00:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mischele, RN♥ 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Just because it may be "harder" does not mean she cannot get pregnant.
ANY TIME you have sex, you risk the chance of pregnancy, before during after period, protected or not.
WHY did you not use condoms??????????
She can take the morning after pill up unto 72 hours after she's had sex.
Talk to her about birth control. If she says "No", you say you will wear condoms. If she says "no" to that, say "no" to sex!
2007-12-16 01:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmmmmmmmmmm i was always told that 14 days after the start of your period you are ovulating and the most fertile . infact a friend of mine was trying to get pregnant and i told her and her hubby to actually have sex two weeks after the start of her first period . and if she were to conceive i told her when she would be due. and i was right,.......... to the day! id worry a little ."and next time use protection ", gawd i cant believe that young people still dont think about pregnancy as a result of having sex . they just think of sex and enjoying it but not the after part.
2007-12-16 00:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend needs morning after pill and you both need to take steps towards preventing this from happening in the future condoms and the pill for your girl friend
2007-12-16 00:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Too early to tell by a test. If her periods fluctuate at all she could have been ovulating.
If you are that concerned you could go to an ER or clinic for the morning after pill. If you are going to go this direction don't wait too long. definately time sensitive.
Otherwise, you will need to wait and see...
2007-12-16 00:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by MSA 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get your girlfriend to the doc if you all have no problems with the morning after pill. Buy condoms on the way.
2007-12-16 00:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by pinky 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
"how do i suggest birth control because i have brought it up in the past and she says no because she doesnt want to get fat, (her sister got chubby on it)?"
UHM, when you get pregnant you will be fat and also be a fat mother with a child you don't want.
GOSH.
REALLY.
2007-12-16 03:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by Hallie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋