He placed a call at 11:20 pm to an erotic massage place. There was about $205.38 withdrawn at 11:53pm. The massage place was about 24 minutes from where he was staying and the massage place has a white-label ATM. He denies going there and just acknowledges he made the call. Should I beleive him ? I am unable to track the ATM where the withdrawal was made.
2007-12-15 21:46:17 · 15 answers · asked by Gogi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It was an ATM withdrawal. My guess is he withdrew 200$ but they charged a hefty fee of 5.38$
2007-12-15 21:55:39 · update #1
maybe you should leave the guy alone and trust him and not spend so much time up his *** trying to catch him "in the act". what are you trying to hide yourself? i have always paid for massage after the fact not before... and how do you get that weird number 205.38? was he tipping in dollars and cents? leave the guy alone and spend your energies on creating bonds instead of creating problems for yourself and your relationship...too much time on ur hands?
2007-12-15 21:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by frankzhere 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
How long you been married? Is there kids involved?
Is he a good husband?
Ok with that being said and the way the world is today, If you been married over 10 years and you have kids and he is a great father and provider THEN PLAY STUPID!
My experience being a single women for the last 8 years is ALL MEN CHEAT! And the women who say NOT MY HUSBAND are in the dark!
I have worked around them I have 30 male cousins and every man I have met in my life cheated.
Life is not a fairy tale.
If it where me I would stay because when you leave your just going to run into another cheater that does not take care of you or the kids!
I was told this many years ago by an older women and I thought she was nuts but now that I am in my 30's I realized much of what she was saying is true.
Please don't say you would rather be alone because honestly being alone is lonely.
Most women will not openly admit that. But it is true
I am trying to help and save you many years of unhappyness because I care about all of the human race
GOD BLESS
2007-12-16 06:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he did this that should be the least of your worries. If you love him and he is a good man forgive him over and over. Do you know why? Because the next guy will also cheat on you or worse. Grow up and learn the facts of life now:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me if you want to hear the truth. You can ask me anything. I don't lie unlike the other answers you will get.
2007-12-16 09:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He really overpaid! Un California the rate for 15 minutes is 50 dollars. Wow!
2007-12-16 06:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Alea S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt look good, does it? All the signs point to the fact that he has been there. Where did he spend the money withdrawn? does he have receipts for what he bought? Probably not.
Dont believe him. Once he lies once, he will do it again.
2007-12-16 05:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty funny to me. What does he say about the 205.38?
2007-12-16 05:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dozer 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u got him pinched. sometimes you dont have to have allllllll the crazy evidence. u sound smart, look in his eyes u will c the answer. but yea he soooo went.
2007-12-16 05:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by RichSD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking like this then you have a serious problem with your relationship you need to sort out this first before anything else
2007-12-16 05:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by crane driver 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
take a pic to the place and ask if they have seen him,
what is saying about the $200
i don't know why your asking you already know he went
2007-12-16 06:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by mommy101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to the erotic massage place and ask them....or maybe he just went out for a good erotic massage which i don't think is anything wrong with it...it relaxes ones muscle, mind and body. as long as he come home back to you just leave it be.
2007-12-16 05:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋