One of my friends claims she's a great Christian, but then on weekends goes off and gives guys handjobs and lately she's turned into a major bimbo and a half! She leads on a heap of boys and I'm sick of it she never use to be this way!
2007-12-15 17:59:23 · 9 answers · asked by Ta***h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Leave. Just leave.
Or confront her... then leave. Fakes are never the people to be around with. It just gets more frustrating if you pretend there's nothing wrong.
People change, there's nothing you can do about it. But it doesn't mean you have to accept and like the changes.
2007-12-15 18:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kiri 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry hun, everyone has to walk thier own path. Its not a great idea for her to be such a hypocrite but I will say something that is pretty biblical and hope that you get the positive from it.
Remove your own problems before you focus on anybody elses irregardless of the largeness or smallness of them, when you can be faultless then cast the first stone and be careful judging your friend, some things are not what they seem. Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-12-16 02:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes going thru something really hard... cant really say what.. but if shes a close friend, you should share your concerns, but if you really are not to close to her and dont really want to deal with it..then push away.. and do your own thing.... friend or not... you have a heart.. if you feel like being there for her.. and helping her out.. talk to her.. show your concerns.. thats a true friend... if you were doing to dumb things in life.. maybe not knowing why.. would u want someone to remind you.. who u are?
2007-12-16 02:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by liveforu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HJ's are awesome. But I digress. What do you care? If she's your friend, really, you'll just accept it but feel comfortable calling out her sh*t. If it's that big of a deal, find another friend. You've got a lot of years to find friends, don't hang on to the crappy ones.
2007-12-16 02:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mike - 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to look after yourself first. If she is dragging you down or treating you bad/making you feel crap you have 2 options: speak to her about it or forget about her. People change and often grow apart.
2007-12-16 02:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by jeckha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats messed up and like ew.
haha, i dont think i could be friends with someone like that i would tell her that if i were you.
2007-12-16 02:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's gonna influence you greatly. I would just defriend-afy myself with her if it bothers you.
2007-12-16 02:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cheezwizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. It's her life. If you don't agree with it, stop associating with her and move on with your own life.
2007-12-16 02:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she does those things KNOWING it bothers you, she is NO FRIEND...lose her.
2007-12-16 02:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋