I am 30 and a virgin. Last night my BF tired penetration even though I declined, he kind of pushed but it hurt too much and he did not go in. But I still bled a lot, have I lost virginity. I noticed a cut in one side. Should I show a dr?
2007-12-15 17:54:56 · 7 answers · asked by Help 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Thank you for the advice. I am quite sure he did not push it in because I moved away. Attempted rape that sounds terrible but just thinking about what he could have done is agonizing. And he did not even apologize. Dump him, guess so. He doesnt deserve my trust/ love if he can be like this.
2007-12-15 18:56:30 · update #1
You are no longer a virgin since you had a penis penetrate your vagina. The cut will heal on it's own. Use vaseline on it. Next time you attempt to have intercourse use some lube like astroglide to make it easier for penetration. I would hope he had a condom on because if he didn't you need to remember that precum does contain a bit of sperm.
2007-12-15 17:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Donna. Sex without your consent is rape, even if he didn't completely penetrate you. As soon as possible, report this to the police and go to the hospital for a rape kit. They will thoroughly examine you, and take evidence, including documenting the cut and any other injury. The longer you wait, the more healed you will be and you will have no evidence.
PLEASE do this right now. It doesn't matter that he is your BF, what he did is wrong and illegal. It is not your fault, and don't let anyone convince you otherwise.
2007-12-15 18:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by jellybeanchick 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hmm, this one is kind of up to you. Some consider losing virginity when the hymen breaks, which can happen when you use a tampon the first time. Some girls go out and have tons of anal sex but since no one ever penetrated their vagina they still consider themselves virgins. Personally, I would stil consider you a virgin because there wasn't any real intercourse.
2007-12-15 18:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
your pretty much not a virgin any more because of the penetration, and you bled
2007-12-16 07:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those broads are trying to start trouble where it doesn't belong. THERE WAS NOT EVEN AN ATTEMPT TO FORCE SEX UPON YOU. Your boyfriend ceased when it hurt you & he could not penetrate your vagina.. No harm done !
2007-12-15 23:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should be worrying baout your virginity at the moment. If your boyfriend tried having sex with you despite your protest, that is considered rape. First see a doctor, then dump your boyfriend or tell a police.
2007-12-15 18:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Donna L 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Virgin = NO penis into vagina
Not a Virgin = Penis into vagina
2007-12-16 02:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋