what can i do about these problems and the fact im ugly to?

Question

im 30 i have bpd, ive aged badly in my face....im overweight...im bald, i have 2 missing teeth....torn ankle ligaments in my left ankle....a crooked little finger......damaged nerves in my right knuckle where i cant even hit a punch bag........my joints and muscles ache and feel tired and weak........it hurts to even extend my hand to type on my crap keyboard.

my parents were very attractive people, but i have turned out very ugly i feel, my dad from Norway my mum from france, but whos family is from southern ireland. i was born in st pauls but moved to the UK at 7 years old.
what do you think?

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am i ugly?

im very vain & a perfectionist in my mind.
have i inherited my mums heritage or more my dads side?

and how will i ever get a loving partner when i look like this and have these physical problems, imperfections?

Answer 1

i see nothing wrong with you, infact you look a bit meaty lol that is a good thing.
i like bald men i find them sexy
you do not look bad for thirty,

also try voltrol ask your doctor regarding your pains this may help

now cheer up

kind regards x kitti x

Answer 2

You are not "ugly" physically but if you are vain and self centered that can make you unattractive to be around.

Sounds like you need to start taking care of yourself. Go to a Dr. and get some physical therapy, practice good nutrition and exercise to fix what you can. I had torn ligaments in my ankle that I had to get surgery for and it has been a great success.

Someone can be physically "beautiful" but are absolutely "ugly" due to the way they live their lives. Then there are those who are not so "beautiful" of face to the world but are absolutely "gorgous" because of the way they act and live. Attitude is everything.

Answer 3

You are perfect! Life is too awesome to focus on the little things. Pack your bags and travel the world, see something new and beautiful. You would look a whole lot better if you smiled. Happiness is the key. If you are not happy, change what makes you unhappy. This is the only life you are ever going to get. Go do something great today.

Answer 4

ask another question ..but this time tell us all the good things!!!!!!!!!!!
then sit with a smile and think .......i aint all bad .

im 40 , thought i was wearin well age wise, bodies falling to bits, no i aint gona list it all lol
im smart , good lookin, thoroughly nice person, diy whizz, can do anything,..................didnt stop my ex divorcin me!

you are what you are and if you dont love urself noone else is gona do it for youi went from self employed /own busines ,fammilly, house and money in the bank to homeless unemployed and skint beyond ur wildest dreams in less than 12 months, **** happens.
got bog all to do with what i look like, its just life
now, im hit the bottom there's only one to go for me
and looks aint gona get me there
integrity and brains and determination is gona do it.

so think of all the good things you have to offer and balls the stuff you cant change, you cant moove a mountain, you just gota go over or round it
or if ya really pig headed ......straight thru the middle lol

Answer 5

NO you are not ugly. God made YOU and He does NOT make junk. you have to learn to love yourself. NO ONE is perfect someone always has something they wish they could change about them.

It has taken me some time to get over being told by my dad ALL the things wrong with me while i was growing up. but i learned it was HIM NOT me.

Please don't call yourself ugly. don't worry about finding a partner when your ready the right one will come into your life. I hope this makes sense. I know what i want to say but it comes out wrong. Take Care and I will keep you in my Prayers God Bless

Answer 6

Wow. you definitely could seek advice from somebody to enable this out. do no longer enable this negativity make you sense such as you're screwed. attempt to think of of your self in a greater valuable mild. do no longer factor out unfavorable stuff, and no rely how plenty it hurts BE valuable. i'm 17, a woman who has psychological issues, never had a boyfriend. do no longer complication approximately relationship. it quite is lame. purely by fact each and every person else is doing it, would not make it seem cool. you have have been given your individual concern happening. by potential of how, whether you're vast boned, workout to objective to lose some weight of it quite is bugging you that plenty! instruct each and every person incorrect. :)

Answer 7

You think you are ugly? You should see me. But the other contributors are right, love yourself and all will love you. Remember, you are not the worst off in the world. Think of a lowest caste Indian facing death on the banks of ther Ganges. You've got it all!!!!

Answer 8

No body's perfect. You look at the beautiful man or woman and ask them about something that is not right with them, they will find something. Now ask a man or woman who are not perfect in body and have accept the fact, they are more beautiful in spirit than the perfect people. We are God's creations and God don't make crap!!!!!

Answer 9

beauty is in the eye of hte beholder. Love yourself and others will love you too. U are not ugly. It could be worse!! If you are really bothered about it consult your doctor. and always remember that sally loves ya no matter what shape or size u are xxx

Answer 10

God... ur being awfully Hard on ur self... stop doin that.... stop beating ur self up... you deserve respect and it starts by giving it to urself brother. you sound very depressed ... have you considered Anti-Depressants..?? they saved me from low moments that sound similar to what you describe.... Have you sought medical help w/ these health issues and ailments you are speaking of..?? your pictures are fine.. you look fine... be nicer to urself.... I think you should go see a doctor... consider medication.. go from there.. I am also 30.. we got lots in common I can relate to ur insecurities I use to always thinkmy folks and family were attractive and i wasn't but I have passed them by now!! holla!