How do we do it?
how do we keep a smile on our face
at work....
act like everything is fine at home...
with the family...
Acting like it is ok, but really we are screaming in side, trying to rip our hair out in frustration....
I think we are amazing....
how we can live day to day...
cleaning...cooking...
even getting crafty for Christmas...
shopping for loved ones, to show how much we care.......
though, they don't even know how we feel inside....our true feelings
the
pain
sadness
and the feeling of drowning in our tears.
We are amazing!
I thought I would just share!
2007-12-15 17:08:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
That has got to be horrible. I can only imagine the heartbreak you two must be feeling everytime you try, and never get your wish. Christmas is a time to enjoy family and the blessings that you already have. People try to focus it on materialistic things, but it's really about love and closeness with family....rekindling the bonds that get lost with the everyday grind in everyone's busy lives. If you think about the true reason for Christmas (if you are religious), Mary never expected to have a baby....she was a virgin. A wonderful thing happened when she least expected it. She was just given the beautiful blessing. Everyone was horrible to her. She was young and unwed and people were very cruel to her....she had pain with the blessing she had as well. You are surrounded with family and friends and you have a different kind of pain, but it still hurts the same way. Hannuka is another holiday symbolizing a beautiful unexpected miracle. The Jewish people did not think that they had enough oil to burn, but it lasted eight days. It was a miracle. The people were going about their lives not expecting anything, and in both cases.....amazing things happened at unexpected times.
This Christmas, embrace what you do have and try not to dread what you don't have. You will be blessed with a miracle when you least expect it to happen. Everything that is meant to be will be. Cherish what you have, pour out your heart....maybe you can volunteer at a children's hospital and read stories to the kids or do something really special with children to bring smiles to their faces and yours as well while you're waiting for a little miracle of your own. I'm hoping and wishing for you to get your wish this Christmas, but if it doesn't happen....don't let go of your hope and faith.
Much love to you and your family..Merry Christmas, hun!
2007-12-15 17:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by cutelovegirlie 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I think at times we do this so we keep things looking right or is it keeping peace. We are amazing creatures that we could do a lot of things (juggling) and then we wonder how we managed to do it without breaking down.
2007-12-16 01:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Izzy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dont lose heart Angel. Medical science is so advanced nowadays, and your wish will be fulfilled soon. Go and consult a good gynecologist .
2007-12-16 02:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by subbu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is an amazing story when you think about it, total morons can have a dozen kids accidentally and some couple who would be happy with one , can't.
2007-12-16 23:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how do we do it? we lie a lot,missunderstand about everything,don't seem to care tho,we're all guilty of playing the game of life,stiff upper lip and all that stuff,our own pride does this and in the mean time caused us a lot of pain and misery.......i-am-robot,,,let that be the call
2007-12-16 10:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by THE"IS" 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thanks for sharing...I believe you just shared what many are harboring...and I think more of us than you could imagine...at least you know your not alone...Very well done and I'm giving you a thumbs up... Merry Christmas...
2007-12-16 01:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Trix 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I never realy so our species that way! That is pretty cool. Humans are complex species. we have over 20,000 genes and lots of DNA. In my opinion, God made us this way so we can spread his word
2007-12-16 01:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by vlugenhagen 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This describes me to a "T" Thanks for sharing~ It can only make us stronger and more determined~
2007-12-16 07:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by MurphysGirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
http://babypredictions.blogspot.com/
2007-12-16 08:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
hey at least you get to come!
2007-12-16 01:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋