Trust problems?

Question

Okay i have a very hard time, and i mean very hard, creating trust bonds with other people. Only three people have ever gotten me to trust them, and they weren't my family. They were and are my best friends. But even with those bonds, i still have problems telling them a lot of things. And with every one else including my family, i can't trust automatically. I can't. I still don't trust my mother who iwas alone with for eight years. And i'm thirteen. You can imagine this doesn't help in the friend making department. I'm not complaining about that though, i like having only a few things. But i really want to trust someone and i'm finding it's impossible for me. WHY?????????!!!!!!!Help please!

Answer 1

Oh, honey.. in today's world this is normal..
those who are not cautious like u get hurt over again and again.. and even at that u too may get hurt..

I am old enough to be ur mom..
and I am like u..
we have gotten hurt very deeply once up on a time..
by our family or Friends or someone we cared and loved.
this is the results.. not trusting..

not everyone is worth.. trusting.. or loyal.. ..
sad but true..
I feel for u.. I will be Ur friend ...
good luck,,, happy holidays.

Answer 2

ok that's a hard question to answer. depends on your situation. just try trusting your friends with your problems. maybe if you learn to trust your best friends, you'll learn to trust others too. you might not get the advice your looking for when your telling your friends your problems, but it's a start. you're also taking a risk of trusting people when it might go wrong sometimes, but you're young. don't always lock away your problems if they're are bothering you a lot and don't stress too much on thinking if you could trust a person. you'll learn from experience as you grow older.