2007-12-15 16:33:31 · 11 answers · asked by Lost. at. Sea. 7 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Because we become angry when our expectations, however unrealistic, are disappointed. The solution is obvious. Love has no expectations. It's self-centred puppy love that does.
2007-12-15 17:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Then your love was probably selfish expecting something for yourself, which the other person did not fulfil.
I love you means, that you love the core of another person so this persons soul. If this is not there and you actually lied to this person, the behaviour or some weakness of this other person can turn you of so much that you feel like hating this person as you never loved this persons soul, which is there beyond this persons behaviour or faults.
We have all so much to learn and if you truly love a person, you would never ever be able to say I feel hate.
2007-12-16 01:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by I love you too! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This whole existence is bipolar. In this world you find black – white, truth – falsity, sun – shade, birth – death, creation – destruction, existence (matter) – non existence (anti matter), black hoe, where the whole existence merges and white holes where the whole existence emerges. The whole universe is bipolar.
Similarly at one pole is love and the other pole is hatred. The mind of man oscillates between the two. In one amplitude, it goes to the one end – the love and in the second amplitude it goes to the other amplitude the hatred.
That is why Yoga, Zen and a few other schools call upon you to transcend the domain of mind so that at mental level you are not affected by this bipolarity of this world. Indian school Vedanta calls this bipolarity as Maya. This is very much inherent, like the categories of Immanuel Kant in the vision of the person.
The source is http://www.lightinlife.com/
2007-12-16 01:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Pratap 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love you comes with a huge baggage. The subject has to keep living up to the value of 'why I love you'. The dissapointment that could follow when what one expects from the other is not forth-coming will create a feeling of let-down, despise...hateful emotions
2007-12-16 00:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by highthoughts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The emphasis is on the "I" for it is the false ego that experiences anything that is not Love. Duality, polarity, senses that point outward rather than inward to Truth. What do the eyes see, the ears hear, what does the mouth speak? These senses do not serve Love; they serve the ego. I am Sirius
2007-12-16 06:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by i am Sirius 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People whom you love can hurt you very easily. To put it rightly only the people you love have the power to hurt you. So when they do it usually has an effect on you and it changes your love to hatred. Intense hatred can only come if there was intense love.
2007-12-16 05:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because when you love someone a lot and share your feelings and secrets with that person, you trust them to love you back or you look up to them. But once they disappoint you, or you realize that they're human and not everything you thought they were, this fantasy you built falls down.
It's the people we let get close to us that can hurt us the most.
2007-12-16 02:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love becomes to hate coz of negative influences inside between both or outside externally. It shouldnt happen though. Always work to avoid it.
2007-12-16 02:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when u love someone u started to have higher expectation from that person than from anybody else. SO when this person starts failing your expectation, especially decided to hurt, u would be hurt and it would be very easy to switch those feeling to the opposite extreme..
2007-12-16 00:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by tiiista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can't. Love is unconditional. If we hate, then we never loved.
2007-12-16 08:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by phil8656 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋