There is this man that lives about 2 and a half hours from me. He's 30 and I am 25. He lives with his mom (so he says). We started talking on a free dating site in November. Then we started chatting on AIM and sometimes through texts. We used to talk on AIM more often that we do now. There are whole days that I do not hear from him. But I attempt to get in touch with him. He likes to play poker, bowling, and pool at night after work. He has some friend that's a girl that he goes fishing with on Sundays. I've sent him e-mails, he doesn't reply. I sent him a Christmas card to his house. He hasn't sent anything back to me yet. I am putting way more into this 'Relationship' than he is. He said that he wants to meet me after Christmas. I have doubts about that. What's this sound like to you? Could he be hiding things??!
2007-12-15 16:22:41 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look at it this way.... U like him, u want to talk to him, u want to be around him, u send him cards, give him ur attention... right? Why.... cuz you like him and want him in ur life cuz u know thats how u r supposed to treat somebody u want. . .
but does he do that with u?
then u have ur answer.
cuz if he wanted u as much as u wanted him, he would act the same way as u or even give u more.... thats what u do when u truly want someone in ur life - u dont ignore them - just the way u dont ignore him.
2007-12-15 16:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a family,that "see you after Christmas quote is the(smoking gun)".Why after Christmas? He can't talk to you during Christmas because "he's broke" buying all those presents for his kids.He don't want to look cheap not getting you something.I hope I'm not being insensitive but that's what I think.
You need to guard your heart sister when dealing with this Internet dating.That's a large ocean you're swimming in and the dangers are real.The "fish" are there but the "sharks" are lurking.Be careful.
2007-12-16 03:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by ROOSEVELT M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u no the answer..!!!!
U just want us to validate Ur answer..!!!!
Yes, u are putting much too much into this..
there is never an excuse good enough for a man to batter a woman or
ignore a woman.. has he claims he cares/loves...
U need to back off.. go find something else to get involve in.. leave him alone..
it sounds like he is married/ or has a girl..
he is just buying time.. w/ u..
u need to drive up and see if the address is a good one.. and if so.. who else lives there? don't cuz any trouble..
just get Ur answer and leave..
good luck,, happy holidays.
2007-12-16 00:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sincere to hear him out before you express resent in this matter. He might have some complications. But try to understand the situation before you made up your mind. Sometimes, men are different than women, so do try to find out more. If things went south, hey at least you knew where went wrong.
2007-12-16 00:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by SASA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋