For months I've been seeing this incredibly cute guy, in the streets, in the bars, everywhere. He makes Ryan Phillippe look like Wallace Beery on a bad morning. Finally I decided I had to do something. I had to meet him! Then one morning at our neighborhood cafe, I heard someone call him by name--"George."
At the bar the next night I went up to him and clasped his hand in both of mine, "George! (I said) Oh, my god it's been ages! You look great. Meet my friend Sam Jones. Sam this is George...I'm sorry, I've forgotten your last name." He told me and then admitted he had forgotten both of mine which I quickly supplied and suggested we exchange numbers so not to lose touch again.
Well, that was the beginning. I've had lunch with him a couple of times, and we've hung out a few times. He still thinks we met before, and that he just forgot. Was this wicked of me? Do I confess?
2007-12-15 15:41:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
After a couple of good dates, yea! I think he will laugh it over after he gets to know you and like you. If you do it to soon, he'll think you are crazy and a stalker for finding out his name. Wow, he didn't ask any questions about where you met? Lol, you're clever.
2007-12-15 15:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a story for amnesty hour... which may or may not present itself. It is a funny story and something you'd probably see in a romantic comedy but often times life does not imitate art and there may be the slightest chance that he'd be offended by you playing with his mind like that. Of course there is also the chance that he already knows and he is just playing with you as well. Who knows. The little trick was clever and I think after you've gotten to know each other well, it could be something you both can laugh at.
2007-12-15 16:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I'm concerned you can't win at this point. You have based what you hoped would be a relationship on a lie. It is starting to blossom and now you are jammed up and can't get out.
Do one thing for partners everywhere. Keep it to yourself and suffer in silence. You are the one who has broken the trust, why try to get forgiveness. All that does is load the misdeed onto the other party. If you tell and he forgives, I'll bet you the world your relationship will never be the same again. There will be a cloud over it from now on. Keep the sky clear and eat Rolaids for the acid stomach I'm sure you will have.
2007-12-15 15:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Confess after you know that there is chemistry there and things are going well with you two and its obvious that you like eachother.
Just say: 'You know what, i lied, me and you never met, but i've been seeing you around lately and cant help but notice you evertime and I just had to meet you! So I heard someone scream out your name and thats how I found out and decided to play along with it because I didnt know how else to approach you.'
If someone said this to me after a few dates, I would defenetly be flattered that they went through that just to meet me. :)
2007-12-15 16:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wicked witch?
2007-12-16 02:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him. Just say that you were to shy to introduce your self and heard that his name was George. He will probably think that it was cute, or not.
2007-12-15 21:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are going to have to reveal your ploy. The sooner the better.
2007-12-15 15:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't confess. It was a slick move and took guts to complete.
2007-12-15 16:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mighty Mack 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course he'll be flattered
2007-12-15 15:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by larry_me6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
naw, sounds fun, go with it
2007-12-15 15:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋