Yes we use lots of lube. I'm pretty sure i'm not allergic to the condoms. It hurts the most when he first enters and then it hurts deep inside. Soemtimes it's like a burning sensation. We have to stop in the middle sometimes because I can't take it. It's always been like this and I started having sex about 2 months ago. Could it still be my hymen? It's definately not an STD. I could make a gyno appointment, but i'm scared because I've never seen one.
2007-12-15 15:07:34 · 14 answers · asked by Melanie 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
by the way, I'm 18 and fully developed
2007-12-15 15:22:51 · update #1
there is a condition where sex is painful no matter how much lube you use. i forgot the name of it but im sure you can google it. you need to go to the doctor to diagnose it. it is werid at 1st but just relax. my doctor talks to me the whole time and is really gentle. i tell her not to tell me what she is doing bc im prone to fainting.. :) she will tell u to relax your legs and its werid at 1st but its over in less than 5 min. you can do it
2007-12-15 15:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Zaiden is 1! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should probably go and see an OBGYN...as scared as you are it is probably your best bet. You may not want to hear it but if you've never seen an OBGYN then you don't know FOR SURE that it isnt an STD, It is highly possible that it is. The only way to really determine what it is about sex that bothers you so much is to consult your doctor! If you are really that scared, take someone trusting with you like a best friend, mom, aunt, or even your bf! Good Luck!
2007-12-15 23:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say its just cos ur new to it, take it slow use lots of lube, n maybe a position where ur in control so u can only go as deep as is comfortable for you. try it for another month n if its still painful see a gyno, it may be a deformity down there ar something not right, althought the stinging does sound like it may be the hymen. also i dont know how old u are, you may b to young n not developed properly for sex yet.
2007-12-15 23:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by ausgirl19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is no reason to be scared. You should see one anyway now that your are sexually active. Try finding a woman doc so you will feel more comfortable. The doctor will be able to answers all your questions and concerns. But it usually is like that when you first start having sex, give it time and it will become more enjoyable for you.
2007-12-15 23:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by gryffindoregirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive heard that a hymen could take a while to completely break, so it may be that
if u have never seen a gyno and having sex, u should see one - good idea to get birthcontrol (if u dont midn the idea of chemicals in your system that isnt exactly with harmony with your body naturally) from them, also good for an annual or biannual check up - esp when u get older for checking cancers
2007-12-15 23:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgogana2007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make the gyno appointment and have them take a look. They are professionals, they will help you if they can.
2007-12-15 23:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be an infection or a possible cut, if it is allergic reaction it would not go straight to a lot of pain right away.
2007-12-15 23:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by ed w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time. It probably is your hymen. I just it's just taking a while to break. Idk.
Best of luck!
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2007-12-15 23:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by total_eclipse_of_the_sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kidding right??? Don`t you think you should get in touch with a doctor?!!!
2007-12-15 23:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by peridot6662002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the docter
2007-12-15 23:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋