My friend is turning into a Slutt!!!!?

Question

Ya that pretty much explains it!! What do I do!!!??? she wasnt like this b4!!!!

shes like ya im proud of it!

shes always like ya im gonna wear a kintted thong and im gonna grind w. everyone! I just wont be able 2 stop myself!

Answer 1

"You are known by the company you keep" so unless you want others to think you are the same kind of person, you need to either find new friends, or help her get herself together.

Talk to her and find out why she is turning into a slut. Is she having troubles at home and using this as a way to get attention? Is she very insecure and thinking that this is the only way to get a guy? (It will work in the short term, but not very long -- guys want to think they are the only guy and not just one of a series.)

Answer 2

The first thing to do is go to her and tell her that you have noticed a change in her behavior and that it isn't a favorable change. You need to remind her that she is still your friend and that you are there to listen to her. Then, ask her why she finds the attention from the opposite sex so appealing.

For the most part, when a young girl begins to act like this it's because of the bigger underlying self-esteem issue that she is dealing with. Either she was not attractive and now suddenly is and the attention is new and exciting, or she is trying to compete with girls she believes more attractive than she is.

Does she have a father figure? Sometimes girls look for positive reinforcement that she should have received from her father in numerous romantic partners only to get hurt in the end because sex does not equal love.

Your part is to be reassuring and not judge her because of it. There is something more serious going on. If you consider yourself a friend, then act like it. It's not all that helpful that you believe more easily that she is a whore, and not that there could be something emotionally wrong with her instead.

Answer 3

Well, she could have been a slutt waiting to come out when you guys were hanging out or she could be trying to belong and is not being herself. First figure out which of the two above she is. If she'd the first, she'll have to learn the hard way and you will not have much say. If she is like my second example, try having a heart to heart talk or writing a note telling her how you feel and why she should not slutt it up adn how that could hurt her later. She will likely get mad at you but if slutty really isn't her, she'l come around later. You'll have to be patient.

Answer 4

well this is a veryy typical problem for girls and what you can do is try talking to her and saying that you dont really like the new person she is and if she is still like that after that talk try seperating from her a little bit until she realizes that she lost a friend and last if that doesnt work then just forget about her because thats her problem

good luck

Answer 5

It's not worth fretting over... my best friend since 3rd grade, took that same course, except she mixed in drugs.... I tried for a couple years to "fix" her but there's nothing you can do. I've come to terms with the fact that nothing you say will ever change someone unless their willing to change... so if you try and don't succeed, don't worry; just focus on yourself. That's all you can do in the end.

Answer 6

Man, forget her and stop hanging around her. Ppl judge you by the company you keep so dont stay around her or you will start being called a slutt

Answer 7

Talk to her, tell her honestly what you feel about her promiscuous behavior. Listen to her response, be understanding. There is probably an underlying cause of her behavior change(s). She may need professional help before she gets hurt, an STD, pregnant, or any combination of these.

Answer 8

Your feind actually is in her teens and is exploring, with raging hormones out of control this could happen. How about just being her friend, this does not mean you have to run her life or join her adventures, you just have the simple job of being her friend.

Answer 9

You should talk to her and ask her whats going on...
Ask her why she did...
Just talk to her and if shes a freakin slut and all that stuff why do you have to keep being friends with her?
You can if you want to, but you dont have to remember follow ur heart always!
And good luck =]
Hope my advice helped.

<3 Mz. Cardenas

Answer 10

What you do is just be you and be her friend. You can't control ANY person. You can talk to them but I can assure you, it may not go well if you do it that way. You can learn from her mistakes and she may come crying to you sometime and all you have to do then is be there for her....you won't need to judge. Maybe if you just be YOU, she may learn from you. This I hope for you and your friend.