I am in my younger 30's and still have never had a orgasm with any of my partners. I mean EVER! The only way I can achieve a orgasm is hanging on a door with my leg crossed over the other and the pressure allows me to have one immediately. I know it sounds crazy but I accidentally stumbled upon this when I was very young. Have I ruined myself? I cannot stand to be touched outside. Penetration is nice but still nothing. Will I ever have one??? Any ideas? I find myself having sex less and less cause it just does nothing for me. I get aroused but can't acheive my goal. Some say I'm trying to hard but then why can't I give myself one? The feeling outside I guess is sensitivity to the point it feels very annoying. This is a real question and need help from some women with the same situation.
2007-12-15 13:59:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Most women do not have an orgasm through sexual intercourse. It requires direct manual or oral stimulation to the clitoris. Go for awhile without having an orgasm, then try any other way but the way you have been experiencing an orgasm. You need to find other things that stimulate you.
2007-12-15 16:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that I can think of is not using fingertips, but just lower on the finger and just softly rubbing the clit during play or sex. I have the same problem when my guy does it, but not me.
2007-12-15 14:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by brjarrett1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so try sex in this same position... hanging on a door with your leg crossed over the other...MMM, I'd be willing to help. i think you just need a real man who can give it to you good.
2007-12-15 14:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start with seeing your doctor about this "sensitivity" you speak of here.
2007-12-15 14:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women just can't.
2007-12-15 14:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by DF92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋