iS THIRTEEN TOO YOUNG?

Question

I wanted to know which of the following is and isnt appropiate for a thirteen year old
1.giving out your cell phone number
2.dating
3.having a boy friend
4.kissing
If its not appropiate,which age is?

Answer 1

none of that's 2 young.

Answer 2

Well it would depend on the situation in most of those cases.

1.giving out your cell phone number - only to your friends and family and classmates, people you know. You shouldn't give your cell number out to people you meet online at any age if that's what you want to know. Just keep track of your bill lol.
2.dating - I think group dates would be absolutely appropriate.
3.having a boy friend - Yeah, but not a serious boyfriend; you have lots of time left for that. Just a boyfriend you hang out with and go to dances and parties with is fine. That will help you start learning how to have good opposite-sex relationships and who knows - could grow into a real boyfriend/girlfriend relationship later.
4.kissing - Maybe, it would depend on your own maturity level. You will just know when it's the right time and the right person to have your first kiss - whether it's 13 or 20 or even older. Don't waste it on something stupid like spin the bottle or just because you think you are supposed to - it's a moment you will remember the rest of your life and it's awesome to have one of those perfect memories to look back on.

Answer 3

I'm 14, and this is my opinion.

1) This is fine if you know the guy (I'm assuming you're talking about a guy) very well. I think email would be better for starters, but then again it is easier to hide your true feelings with text. But really, if your parents say it is alright, I can't see the harm.
2) Well, you can't "really" date below 16 if you think about it. But I'll just ignore that and say that while below 15 is probably too young, it is alright if you are in an area with a lot of people and preferably just a nice calm area like a park where you wouldn't get pressured to do something you may regret. Although it sounds like adults sometimes think that teens (especially boys) jump at such opportunities, it isn't always true.
3) I don't see a problem with this. As long as you respect each other. Most "couples" I saw in middle school (and still sometimes now as a freshman in high school) only were together for one thing...
4) Truthfully...yes, it is too young. I think you should stick to hugging for now. If you are going to kiss, just do it quick. Nobody needs to see you engaged in lip-lock for 20 minutes. I'd say 15-16 would be a better age.

Answer 4

I never had a cell at 13 and either did my friends....also i believe 16 is the right age for all these things..not for a 13 yr old....i just answered a question from a 13 yr old who is preg even thought no all kids r the same but things happen and ur 13 the brain is not threw growing and u can make some BIG mistakes at that age so i am keeping the boys away from my child at that age lol

Answer 5

1. Yes-To your friends. But not to strangers. You might also want to ask your parents if it's ok so you don't run up a high bill if you use your phone alot.

2. I'd wait till at least 14 or a freshman in high school.

3. Again, freshman in high school.

4. It's ok as long as it's just kissing.

I was in 8th grade when I turned 14. But I also had my driver's licence, my own vehicle, drove to school and had a cell phone. I wasn't into dating any guys that year so I didn't date. I think a freshamn in high school is a good age though because most people do get their first boyfriend and go on dates as freshmen.

Answer 6

1. I think it depends on what you're giving your cell phone number out for. If it's a guy who yuo know is just going to ask you out, 13 is a little young, but if it's just a friendly thing, sure.
2. I think 13 is a little young to actually pair off into a couple, but hanging out in a group with guys and girls, like a group date, is probably okay. Again, it depends on what you're going to do.
3. I think that should wait until at least 16 or 17.
4. Again, I think this should wait until at least 16 or 17.

I'm rather old fashioned, I know, but I didn't date at all until I was 16 and my first kiss and first boyfriend weren't until I was 17. At that point, I was definitely not totally mature, but I was close enough that I was able to make smart choices that I wouldn't have made at a younger age.

Answer 7

They're arranged in your order. "Yes" means it's ok, not that it's too young.

1. Yes, to close friends. NOT to the entire school. If she does, she'll get prank called so many times (experience).

2. Yes. Nothing major though. Let her make the call for herself on this one. A lot of kids at this age consider holding hands to be dating. Actual dates are a no until she is 14-15, or until you believe she is responsible enough to not take it too far.

3. Yes. Again, nothing major. Make sure they aren't disappearing for a half hour together. Try to keep an eye on them. You don't want them sneaking off to do things you don't want them to (use your imagination).

4. Yes again, but also again nothing major. Kisses on the cheek or breif kisses on the lips are ok. Shouldn't be kissing for long periods of time. Probably just hello and good bye kisses.

Answer 8

I would only give your cell phone number to close friends. Everything else you've stated is not appropriate at 13 years. The only thing for someone at that age should be concerned about is doing good in school and/or hanging with their friends at the mall. Also participating in sports or school activities. I believe the right age would be around 18 because then you'd be getting out of high school and that would be one less thing to worry about.

Answer 9

I think ALL of it is inappropriate for a 13 year old... 13 is still just a KID! The #1 is actually dangerous, because 13 year olds don't know who's actually good for them and who's not, and the 13 year old may end up getting hurt by giving out a phone #. Dating, no.... dating should be a precursor to marriage, and you can't get married without your parents permission until you are 18, so why the "need" to date. Same goes for 3 and 4. I don't think dating is appropriate until you are 16 years old.

Answer 10

1. It's fine to give out your number to friends....
But let's be wise, you wouldn't give your number to the random cute guy you saw skating, would you?
2+3. Dating goes along with having a boyfriend. I wouldn't really call it dating at that age, since in my opinion a date is when the person you're going out with picks you up and takes you out, as opposed to a parent dropping you off. Having a boyfriend shouldn't mean more than holding hands, hugging, and the occasional kiss on the cheek. C'mon, you're 13. No hardcore making out.
4. See above.

Answer 11

i think of so. i think of each and every person is desirous to be "adults" and adventure "person issues" at a youthful age. i don't have self assurance a 13 year previous has the adulthood point to attend to the problems (and circumstances) that comprise having to attend to a dedication and a boyfriend/lady pal. i assumed I knew each and every thing at 13 and regrettably it wasn't the case. Relationships are a factor of existence, and you will adventure them quickly, yet relationships take a tole on a individual, no rely how previous you're. they are in a position to influence you emotionally and mentally and in specific situations even bodily. people will say that the relationship that is going on at 13 is harmless however the sorrowful actuality of the greater youthful generations is, that it quite is no longer. females are dashing to 'strengthen up' and adult men (maximum, no longer all) are seeking for an risk. 13 year previous females are 'appearing' like sixteen year previous females now, so in essence, relationship is an identical no rely what age. So, confident. i might say i in my opinion sense that 13 yrs previous is purely too youthful to this factor.