i am in love with this guy secretly for a long time now he acts natural to me but everyone says that he's gay sometime his behavior is a little off but not in a gay way he's just full of his self and cocky also he has gay friends but when i ask him y, he say he dose not discriminate but am confuse i don't want to be with a guy that has another guy lover and if i ask he dose not tell me the truth and somehow he is pretty alert that people says he's gay behind is back and clam about this tell me what to do please! thank in advance
2007-12-15 12:45:18 · 13 answers · asked by tashie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I can understand how it can be frustrating to think about. Your best bet is to ask him, hint to it at first (maybe talk about some of his gay friends). Make sure it's 1on1 so he won't have to get defensive in front of others.
2007-12-15 12:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every since I read some books by this author E. Lynn Harris about down low brothers I have had my gay-dar on baby!!! And what I have found out is that only a gay man can truly tell a gay man so if you know someone that's gay that doesn't know this guy introduce the two and see what your friend says. And also men or boys that try to hard to be manly and profess every chance he gets about how much he hates gay men then you should have a light bulb over your head. If you are just walking down the street with this guy and he can spot guys out that are gay with out them being fabulously gay...if they look straight to you...houston you have a problem..and last but not least, if you are about to have sex with this guy and you are caressing his bottom and he arch his back and don't move your hand if you get close to his rectum....girllll get out of there he is fruit juicy....
2007-12-15 20:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by sophie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not sure what to say i just know when i c a guy guy. i am not against then at all. I would think gay guys would cross there legs and they talk a weird way to. Some times i notice they even stand a certain way to tell if they are gay or not. And for some strange reason they are upsessed with there butt to. If u have sex i mean
2007-12-15 20:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get with him if you want but theres really no right solution except for the one you end up choosing , either you end up not getting with him and wonder what if i had, or you go on and find someone else, or you get with him and he admits he's gay or doesn't, but even if he doesn't you obviously won't be satisfied because you'll think he's lying. There are a million different ways this could go but i would say it'd be better for your own sake to stay out of the relationship
2007-12-15 20:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by jared l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive noticed those who are gay don't open up that they are until they feel ready. My best bet is to get to know him more as a friend. I think you just have a deep crush over him because being in love means he loves you to.... x
2007-12-15 20:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Varisha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to hook him up with a girl, ANY girl.
Whether it is to go out with or just for a 1 night stand, if he says NO to both of them then you should know from that that he is a batty bwoy (gay) give it a shot
2007-12-15 20:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by ID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to him if he wants to say whether or not he is. No way to tell for sure unless you catch him doin the bump de bump with another guy or making out.
2007-12-15 20:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Muzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date him for a while....ask him out. If after a while he acts like best-buddies instead of boyfriend-girlfriend, then there's your answer.
The worst thing that would happen is you would learn a dark truth....that you already had suspicions about.
2007-12-15 20:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Max 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this simple question:
I like you very much and would like to be your girlfriend. Would you like to be my boyfriend?
It's amazing what truthful responses you can get by getting right to the point.
2007-12-15 20:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by Palmerpath 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have girlfriends? If not, he's probably gay. Just ask him if he prefers dating men or women.
2007-12-15 20:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋