i am 15
my bf has fingered me a few times and i have masturbted before...
i am going to the gyno for the first time with my mom bcuz i am going to go on birth control
(NOT because i'm having sex, but bcuz i have rlly HORRIBLE periods where i can't even move for the whole week)
i am jw, will the gyno be able to tell that i hav been fingered and hav masturbted before?!
i dnt want her to like, tell my mom... lol
help?!
2007-12-15 12:17:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
No the doctor can't tell from looking at you but all questions asked should be answered honestly. Don't worry, doctors can't tell your parents anything you so you're mom won't find out. Good luck and God bless!
2007-12-15 12:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Krissy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she won't be able to tell unless you tell her. Hymens can break for any reason and some girls are even born without one so not having one or having a broken one doesn't mean anything. The only way she could tell is if you had rough dry sex and it cause small lesions on the walls of your vagina. If you got turned on and were wet enough, and had gentle or normal sex, you could do it the day before the exam and she would have no way of knowing unless you told her.
2007-12-15 12:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No the gyno will not be able to find out. Before you take it another level, sit back and look at things from a different perspective.
2007-12-15 12:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Carlos de La Vega 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no way that a gyno or anyone for that mater can tell if you have been fingered or have masterbated or have lost your virginity.... there is a piece of skin that sometimes tears when you have yoru first time... but that can also happen while playing sports or riding a bike or doing stretches or even puting a tampon in... there is no way!
2007-12-15 12:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they wont' be able to know that but you must be COMPLETLY honest with the doctor with any questions he asks you its for your well being. He can't tell your mom anything or he could be sued and loose his job however if your mom goes into the drs office with you then she will obviously hear what is being said, so in that case i would have her wait in the waiting room
2007-12-15 13:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are able to tell you can always tell the gyno what happened and ask her not to tell ur mom. i think theres a thing called doctor patient confidentiality or something like that.
2007-12-15 12:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your wonderful i wouldnt placed anyhing on it purely bathe or wash as much as maintain from getting contaminated for sure he became right into a sprint to tough in case you pick for to do something like that back make confident that your thoroughly healed or i will make it worse
2016-11-03 09:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by durrett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely, you're fine. the gyno can only tell if your skin has been ripped inside, from having something large going in... when you masturbated... did it hurt at all, like ripping or whatnot? cause if you have, then there miiight be a problem.
2007-12-15 12:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, that gy has seen plenty more than you. I like you'r bf already. Have as much fun as you can before you get married. The pills will help, but not for more than ten years.
2007-12-15 12:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doctor won't know. Nor will they really care--except to ask if you are having intercourse or oral sex. It's important that you answer all of your doctor's questions 100% honestly. They won't tell you mother, they aren't allowed to discuss anything about your appointment with anyone.
2007-12-15 15:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Rayvin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋