we all get mad a people.. have harsh words.... do you think about it afterwards? ... are you honest about how things should have been handled ?... who made mistakes ?... including yours ?... does this help sort it out ?... or do yoou just think about what the other person did wrong ?
2007-12-15 12:13:02 · 5 answers · asked by chralissia 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
thats it some times we get so cought up that after cooling down we think things over and sometimes even go dang that was dumb of me.... or I realy should not have said that... do you tell the other person that you know what you did or said was wrong ?
2007-12-15 14:36:37 · update #1
boss man I tip my hat to you...for concidering others and looking at your self in these situations...
2007-12-16 13:15:37 · update #2
yes
lets kiss and make up...
2007-12-16 13:18:05 · update #3
Arguments, ( I prefer to call them "A Difference Of Opinion) are never just one person's fault.
Because we're human, it's not possible to agree with everybody all of the time. Unfortunately, sometimes we allow our emotions to rule our brains.....this is normally when the trouble starts and we find it difficult to say that we could be wrong.
Arguments are 'heated discussions' derived mostly from 'opinions' (informed or misinformed) and most of us have an opinion about something.....just because they're our opinions, doesn't necessarily make them correct!!!!!
Arguments are nobody's fault....perhaps the event or statement that started it, could have been done or said in a different way, but it's also the way this event or statement is interpreted by the second person and consequently, the reaction of the second person.
Compromise is the only solution to 'differences of opinion' and it's the ability of the people involved, to see the other's point of view and visa verca.
2007-12-15 12:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bob M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to look at how honest someone has been and how much consideration they used for the other person. Sometimes I don't like something but I can't fault the person, because they really haven't done anything wrong. There are other times when I can see that someone is criminal in their behavior and I do get mad.
As to looking at myself after an argument, yes I do apologize for what I did/said that was wrong or unkind.
2007-12-15 12:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one wins a fight...it takes two to start one...it's best to look at your own faults and try to correct them, others will have to the same in their own time. You can't fix me, nor I you...kiss and make up, it's the only cure we have. Oh...by the way...I'm Sorry.
2007-12-15 13:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by vitraux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't blame anyone for whoever faults there is. Forget about the fault or the mistakes made, just concentrate on how to solve it.
2007-12-15 12:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by leon adrianto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the single at fault is the single using the forklift. He ought to have not moved the equipment till he became into particular the acetate became into correct loaded on the raise. If the motive force became into particular the acetate became into correct loaded, no one would have been mandatory to objective to bail him out, and interior the technique risked harm to himself.
2016-11-03 09:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by durrett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋