My husband is one, he doesn't laugh at my jokes, he gets hurt. I'm wondering it's because our signs doesn't match well, I'm a virgo
2007-12-15 12:03:58 · 12 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Some people just do not take some kinds of jokes very well. They see them as a personal insult so one has to be careful what and how they say a joke around some people. I am sarcastic, I do not mean to be mean to people or rude but tend to have a very sarcastic sense of humor, most all of my friends do as well. There are some people who do not and get hurt or offended by that kind of joking around. So if I do not know someone or if someone I know can not take it I will always make sure not to do that to them. Note I said not to them I still do it but I point out other things and other people or myself. That way I do not hurt their feelings. He may think you are making fun of him and that could be hurting his feelings and makes him think you are annoyed by him or really do not care about him that much. He just has a different sense of humor than you do. The main thing is to know that and remember that when you make a joke about him. That way he knows its a joke and will not get his feelings hurt. If he does the same to you then you should tell him how it makes you feel. Hey we are all different and we all see things that are funny to us, yet they may not be to others.
2007-12-15 12:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Duh, it's cuz of your signs. I'm a cancer, don't you ever joke on cancers about themselves.........EVER LOL. I am a cancer and I just realized recently that my issue is that I have an inferiority complex.....ahhh its so hard to get over it. I'm trying crap affirmations everyday reinforcing it into my head that there is nothing to be "ashamed" about....reaw. Yes, it's annoying. And yeah, I bet other people wonder why I am so "sulky" so often and whatever, but........................hey, Sorry for having low self-esteem I'm trying to work on it here. Blah. Lol. Anyway, hey, you, Virgo person... guess what. If someone were to make fun of YOU in any way...that person would end up wonderin the same thing about you "Can they take a joke?" BEcause you virgos are sensitive as hell, too^^ So don't come here asking "Oh, it's cuz we're not compatible..." Yeah, whatever...good luck finding the one you're compatible with, cuz I know for a fact every virgo I've met can't take a joke either. At least I understand where they're comin from instead of being all like "Ooooh why so sensitive? Maybe we're just not compatible??? hmmm...." haha great reasoning that is, don'tcha think?
Call it an inferiority complex too, or whatever you will, but there is definitely that fear of being inferior with us both.
-a Cancer with a Leo moon
2007-12-15 20:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Parker232 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm a cancer, but I'm a female. I can take a joke. I'm not sure if the sign stuff is the same for men or women.
2007-12-15 20:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well, are your jokes truly tactless? Virgos can be tactless at times. Most cancers can take jokes that aren't real mean.
2007-12-15 20:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
More than likely, that this has nothing to do with Astrology. Each of us has our own sense of humor. Human nature ! Some people have a " dry sense of humor", others' have the " slapstick " type of humor. I wouldn't take this personally !
2007-12-15 21:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ruth 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah...
Im a cancer and I laugh at almost about anything!
except... i noticed I do take SOME comments a little
TOO personally... but i'm used to mental abuse now soo >_>
2007-12-15 20:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by mysty_twilight 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Cancer men, ugh I hate them, I'm an Aries and I don't get along with cancer men at all. I've never heard of them not being able to take a joke though, but I know they can be total jerks as in they think they know what is right for everyone.
2007-12-15 20:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by sparrowszealot 4 · 2⤊ 6⤋
yes they can!!!my boyfriend is a cancer and we joke all time and they make him laugh.he loves jokes and joking around also! :-)
2007-12-16 00:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by ......... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes they can.. as long as the joke is not about them..or on them.. they are sensitive and any joke you play on them.. they will think your trying to belittle them
2007-12-15 21:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur jokes were too extreme and he got hurt
2007-12-15 20:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋