they both hate each other, i luv my boyfriend, but my friend might even start to hate me (and get a little immature) for kissing a guy she wants to kill!
2007-12-15 10:29:09 · 3 answers · asked by MagalyxoAllstar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Both your boyfriend and best friend need to realize that it's your decision to have both in your life. And if they want to both remain in your life, they need to learn to get along. No, they don't have to like each other. But they need to at least be civil for your sake.
2007-12-15 11:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They BOTH need to respect that this is YOUR decision to be with him and stay friends with your bf. The only thing you can do is be open with both of them.
Tell your boyfriend that you have invited your bf and that you would like this holiday to be nice, so any troubles that he has with your bf needs to be put aside for another time.
And tell your bf that you really want her there and that your boyfriend is an important part of your life, so she too will need to set aside her differences with your boyfriend if she wants to enjoy the holidays with you.
After that it is up to them. You cannot control everything...especially not the way others feel and act.
Good luck and Happy Holidays!
2007-12-15 18:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by MS Cascata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both have to grow up and realize they must be adults in situations where they are going to be in the same room. They can just keep their distance from each other for one night to keep the peace.
2007-12-15 18:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋