I am 14 almost 15. I am very shy. and i don't have a lot of friends. i am a little verweight. i really donf't have a lot of friends. and im very lonely a lot of the time. i listen to christian music and i have been trying to convince myself that all i need is jesus. but in know that isn't true. people make fun of me and a guy actually punched me a few weeks ago. my dad got mad and called the school and now people hate me even more. i found myself giving people an attitude now.l im so confused. and i want to change everything. what can i do to be more social?
2007-12-15 09:47:51 · 5 answers · asked by puppiilv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
While I was reading that, you reminded me of a friend of mine. I think you have low self esteem. Maybe you don't feel so good about yourself and for some reason others are trying to put you down even further. You see, you do need Jesus Christ. Accept him as your savior and ask him to help you through out the whole day every day. Try to ignore the ones that bother you, they are just trying to hurt you and make you feel bad. Just be yourself don't be afraid to show who you are. Try it buddy ^_^
2007-12-15 10:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by geebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say it. I have a big problem with people who say to just trust in Jesus and everything will be alright. That's the same sort of thing as trust in Jesus that you have enough money for... whatever, and do never bother with the effort to look for a job. I'm not saying you shouldn't trust in Jesus. What I'm saying is let your actions follow your desires. You want to become more social. Are there any after school activities that interest you? Perhaps one of the clubs? Are you into music or drama? What about getting involved in community service. If you just keep putting yourself out there, meeting new people and interacting with people, eventually you won't feel as uncomfortable about it. It becomes easier the more you do it.
I speak from experience. I used to be extremely shy. I still am to a degree only people don't notice it. It was theater that helped me. I would act like I was a confident person in the hopes that I would eventually convince myself that I actually was.
Chin up. Keep at it. You will see great changes!
2007-12-15 19:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do need Jesus. ask him to change your life.go to church
make friends there
2007-12-15 17:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by bluesky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do they make fun of you? Whatever it is youll be ok i promise.
2007-12-15 17:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus will help u. just stick it out and u'll be fine :)
2007-12-15 18:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by nycLAgirl604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋