That happened to me once. I was waiting to "be waited on" and the only two women in the shop were standing around talking about the cruises they had just been on and all the places they saw....ignoring me completely. I finally yelled: Hey...ladies...dock the boats for minute and do your jobs"!!! A couple people in the store laughed out loud...
2007-12-15 09:40:14
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answered by LolaCorolla 7
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Thats sad...forget about the lady, she's maybe having a bad day or just hates her job.
i do get sometimes mad and uoset in public, like yesterday my bestfriend and i faught over a stupid thing we screamed at eached other threw balls around, said each others secrets aloud.....(can it be more embarsing?, YES!) we were outside my house and my neighbors came out to see what was happening. All of the sudden we had an audience........even the cars passing by stopped
.....ussualy when i get upset and pissed out in public, i would never go back to that place again, but my house (i have to go back!)
2007-12-15 10:59:52
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answered by lellypopppsss :) 4
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It's not entirely true that you were a doormat if you was just picking your battles. Not everything is worth fighting for, or making a scene over. Walking away can be a very viable option. It can take a toll and stress on you.....sometimes you just ask yourself if it's worth it. Also, what really is gained? I know who and what I am. I have no need to prove it to anybody, if that is what you were doing. If you wanted to rectify a situation...you don't need to make a scene with her. You make a formal complaint to her supervisor. Do it with grace and not angry indignation.....job done.
2007-12-15 09:43:43
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answered by tlbrown42000 6
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I get really quiet when i get upset. Unless of course in your situation, then the voice comes out. And, you asked for it, so here goes, Doormat. LOL, JUST KIDDING
2007-12-15 09:45:48
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answered by Spark of Insanity 7
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i'm sorry that befell to you... this would be a destructive project to handle. extremely whilst little ones are in touch. the superb project to do is to first thoroughly separate your self from him. Do you have photos of him around the domicile? do away with them or placed them in a field. i'm assuming he nevertheless is preserving touch together with his little ones... so aside from that, you mustn't have any form of connection with him. As time is going on, you will not experience as harm each and all the time. basically time heals that form of project. Do you have any unfastened time for activities? you may get entangled on your little ones's college gadget (PTA, etc). That way you may get to nicely known different adults. in the event that they don't look to be in school yet, perhaps you may %. up a clean pastime. sign up for classes at a wellness center. sign the youngsters up for classes (like karate). That way you will get to fulfill another persons in case you're in touch. in case you get the possibility, you will desire to devote Friday night to your self and have somebody watch the youngsters. bypass out with some acquaintances and have exciting! you may't be waiting to try this a week, yet a minimum of as quickly as a month you need to. the only thank you to "have a existence" is to bypass out to public places. ideally with acquaintances.
2016-10-01 21:40:51
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answered by ? 4
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So what's your point? I've done that , too. I've also made comments about not shopping in that store again and telling others not to shop there because of the poor service. I've also asked to speak to the store manager or the person's supervisor.
2007-12-15 09:44:49
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answered by sundsqk321@sbcglobal.net 5
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yyesssssss!!!
one day i had a fight with one of my friends
and we were screaming, hitting
and everything.
we were at a mini fair thing
and EVERYONE was staring.
and ur not a doormat, i would have just walked out 2.
its better to save it, i was stupid tht day lol
2007-12-15 09:44:22
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answered by duckxduckxgoose 4
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i got mad at my mom and started agruing at her and yelling inside the store. every 1 was starting at us.
i didnt care at that time because i was very mad
2007-12-15 09:39:22
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answered by ███Htown Chino███Go Rockets!! 4
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You have it in you. All you need is some assertiveness training so STICK UP FOR YOURSELF.
2007-12-15 09:43:52
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answered by Max 7
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I really get upset
2007-12-15 09:41:17
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answered by candy c 6
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