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that is the situation. Well after all that and going through hell for 6weeks she called me and wants to try and fix things. The thing is I have no clue what she did in this time, and feel what would stop her from doing it again. My heart is telling me to go back to her but my head is telling me to be done. I do not want to ever put myself through such a thing again. She didnt want anything to do with me for some reason. When I asked her to work it would all she would say is I dont want to right now and this is what I need. She also told me to stop trying I dont know how many times. Now she is back and doesnt understand why I am questioning things.. I love her, I really do... but I also have to look out for my self.. If anyone has dealth with something like this please tell me what happen and what u did.. Thank you in advance
2007-12-15 06:58:36 · 6 answers · asked by Allstars 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-12-15 07:04:43 · update #1
She wants you back but yet she has not giving you a reason why she didn't want you the first time. It sounds to me, and this is just a long shot, that when situations like that arise, she was trying to work things out with someone else. It didn't work out and now she wants you back. Nine out of ten that is usually the situation. Otherwise why couldn't she tell you? If someone is so wishy-washy as her, then you need to move on. What is to stop her from doing it again? Even the bible says that the heart is treacherous. Listen to your insticts.
2007-12-15 07:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well - Here's your question from 4 months ago:
Starting over?
I'm only 20years old and a soph in college. Well just 5months ago I broke up with my g/f of 4years and pratically lived with for 2 of the 4.. Well I am young and wanted to really see what I wanted since she was the only girl I was really ever with. She still wants to be together and so do I but here is where my dilemma comes into play..I kinda get involved with another girl and kinda dating eachother.. Even though she is a very nice girl I have feeling for my ex. My question is what do I do? Im really confused and didn't really want to hurt anyone at all.. Plus the fact that I am still young and in school makes it that much harder for me... Thanks in advance
4 months ago
Sounds to me like what you dished out awhile back has came back to bite you in the a**! Sorry - no sympathy from me!
2007-12-15 07:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dominicks Granny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do take her back, take your time. don't live with each other, let things build and see where this goes. I have a deep feeling that your wasteing your time though. you'd be happier with someone who really knows what they want and that they really want you. your being used
2007-12-15 07:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next step is to walk away. You've already been through this crap with her. Why walk back for more?
2007-12-15 07:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what to do. Move on and good luck.
2007-12-15 07:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your link is broken.
best of luck.
2007-12-15 07:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by bluejay_jh7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋