2007-12-15 06:55:06 · 50 answers · asked by Kyle D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe an std! leave them sweetie they will do it again
2007-12-15 06:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kikki 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello If you two have talked and decided to give it another chance then yes because you have forgiven him then it has to be a whole hearted forgiveness. Where that may not work is in being intimate and then knowing that he had cheated then you need to request a clean bill of health put in your hand, and the other will come later. But when a spouse cheats its a long way back but you can with constant work. and love is the foundation on which you build to not give him a Christmas gift signifies that you have not started that process. And hon on that gift you write Merry Christmas my heart forgives you and mean it sweetie Merry Christmas to you and your family.
2007-12-15 08:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means, you should run out as fast as you can and serve divorce papers on them, once a cheat always a cheat, we all no how to forgive, the problem is that none of us ever forget, every time that person leaves, every where they go, everyone they talk to, you will be wondering whats up? It puts a very big strain on even relationships of many years and statistics say an end to a very high percentage of them, obviously your other half feels that you are not giving them what they need, well that's a pile of bull***p dint believe it, they are the one with the problem, they are only trying to justify there actions by making you feel guilty !
2007-12-15 09:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by ranger ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how angry you are at her yes you should because you accepted her back even though she did this error right...look come on humans are inperfect we cant be faithful to anything... like this there are times we are faithful to paying our bills on time but when money is low what happens we are late or we just cut off that bill and break a contract or something i know that cheating is far worse than messing up on a bill or something but i am just trying to make a crazy point.... just give the gift because its christmas and because its the proper adult thing to do and THIS will show that you ARE THE BETTER PERSON IN ALL OF THIS.. and she will feel even worse about what she did to ya...
2007-12-15 07:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by SAD NINA... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is between you and your spouse. If you have kids keep this low key as hard as it may be. Family will be devastated. It is his responsibility to let everyone know it but do it after the holiday. Have him stay in the dog house if possible. Set rules, so that the holidays won't be a totaled loss. Then kick his cheating *** to the witch. If he cheats on you he will be doing it to her real soon.
2007-12-15 07:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by silvrhawk 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well um are you planning on keeping her? Have you had a long conversation with her as to what you both are going to do about the situtation? Is your marriage worth trying to save?
Do you care enough? If you are open to forgiving and wanting to stay together I would buy the gift and keep talking with her. Unless you get a divorce in the next two weeks I suggest you get the present.
2007-12-15 07:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by oldone 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well my first husband cheated on me and left me for another woman (this was like 11 years ago). I have always had my son buy him a gift for Christmas so my son learns the gift of giving however My ex hates chocolate covered cherries with a passion and we buy them for him every single year.
2007-12-15 06:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well yes its Xmas for Gods sake . Give that cheating spouse a used condom
2007-12-15 07:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by dad 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course!
Pay a little bit extra and have him or her served with their divorce papers on Christmas Day. Nothing says you care like going that extra mile and making sure he or she is served on the actual holiday.
I know it sounds like a joke, but please believe me when I tell you I am completely serious. Cheaters, especially those who have a history of it, and not just a one-time oops, rarely change. Get rid of him or her before your self-esteem and entire life are ruined.
Be well.
2007-12-15 07:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A fedex delivery overnight express with the divorce papers.
No on second thought fedex will be expensive,just hand deliver it.This way you get to savor the moment of his loss.
2007-12-15 07:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by angelguide 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure! Pack his bags, set them out on the front lawn with a big bow and a card that says "Merry Christmas Jacka** - betcha wish you were here!"
2007-12-15 07:00:26 · answer #11 · answered by Dominicks Granny 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋