My daughter hits her husband when she is bored, what should I tell her?

Question

She says he won't take her out to dinner or movies when she is off work every other weekend, but hes out and about the other times when she works and just wants to sit when shes off. So she hit him. Shes pregnant 1month also. Ofcourse I warned of consequences, but got any ideas here? They are newly married for the second time, with a five yr. old and one on the way.

Answer 1

She needs a marriage counselor. Sounds like she has some major anger issues that need to be attended to before the new baby gets here. She does not hit the 5yr old does she?. I wouldn't want to take her out either if she hits on me in private, who knows what tantrum she will pull in public.

Answer 2

She is an abusive control freak desperate for his cash. I think they should get a divorce. He should charge her with assault if his lawyer thinks he has a viable case, or else, document it and let the court know during custody proceedings.

If he has suffered any physical damage or emotional duress, he can take her to court and use it against her for a settlement or award of damages in a suit. She needs counseling and anger management and is lucky she won't see jail time. He should get custody of the children. Maybe she should even be banned for doing this from seeing the kids. Gender is not an excuse. It is wrong for anyone to be hitting and abusing anyone else, male or female.

Answer 3

How could you let her get married again!??!?! I guess both of you haven't learned the facts of life yet:

1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair

Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. You can ask me anything.
I don't lie.

Answer 4

Son in law is a very sensitive relation. So, it is better that you invite both in a dinner and share your experience with them, why a happy family better for confidece and success of children, also give them examples but as a spoke man not a advisor. God (Allah) bless them.

Answer 5

I'll try not to be crude, but if she's pregnant, she knows what to do - she just has to employ better tactics to motivate him. I do know that if I had a beautiful wife, who enticed me with the promise of her company later that night, I'd be happy to do whatever she wanted during the afternoon or evening.

Answer 6

Two words: Anger managment. She is going to have to grow up quickly and curve her behavior if she wants to raise children in a good environment. There is never an excuse to hit---I don't care how angry she gets!

Answer 7

Ask her if she really wants to raise this baby alone? Because thats where she is headed if she keeps hitting him. Not taking her to dinner is no excuse for hitting... how would she feel if he did that to her? I would talk to her husband about it and ask him if there is anything you can do to help.

Answer 8

im sorry but your daughter has some issue now it could be the mood swing that she can be going through because she is pregnant. now is that a preg. thing or was she hitting him like that before she was pregnant! you night want to cheack on that, hope that i could help!

Answer 9

Who could blame him? She sounds like she would be a huge drag to be around for any length of time. Why is she so immature?

Answer 10

So why does she sit around the house and do nothing with him? Why doesn't she go out with her friends?