We haven't been together too long but she used to be infatuated with me. It sort of creeped me out but got used to it quick. We started having sex, apparently she realllyyy enjoyed, for reasons too graphic to write about. Last week everything was great. Great phone conversations, emails, texts, everything. Two days later, she is ice cold. Everything stopped. She called a few days ago and just wants to take it slooowww and just be friends. Am confused, she won't talk. Any ideas why she is acting like this? I know, move on. I just need some theories why. Thanks
2007-12-15 06:17:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
maybe she wanted you so bad now that she got you she no longer finds you interesting...its all a game to her or something?????
2007-12-15 06:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
If it satarted fast, it may finish fast too.
Maybe she's just that type to live in the fast lane - always after the latest thing.
Did she seem the type to stamp her feet and demand everything now?
She's probably acting on persuasion of a long term friend, who may have changed her mind on the run up to Xmas. It leaves her - and you, able to meet new people at this party time of year without the guilt of cheating on anyone.
Make the most of it and enjoy your Xmas.
Call her up telling her you have been to a few parties, and if you're still friends in the new year - you may get back together if there is something deeper between you.
2007-12-15 06:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she just having fun then after that she realize there is no love after all the great moments you have with her. And maybe that’s why she said she want you to be just friends.
I guess she need distant and maybe she realizes there are no love and she wanting you only for friends….
Well if you have specially feelings for her…the good way to find out is ask her, but if you there is no specially feeling for her, move on and forget about this, sometimes there are some girls who is weirdo like this issue.
2007-12-15 06:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has probably just realized things are moving way too fast for her comfort level....either that or she is the type to get infatuated easily but bored quickly and moves on to the next person. As soon as that intensity of the new relationship starts to fade for her she gets bored so she moves on to someone else so that feeling never stops. Consider yourself lucky she at least ended things and didn't lead you on.
2007-12-15 06:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some times its the chase and the pursuit that make girls all hot and once they capture the prey the have a taste and decide they've had all they want. some tines its better to not give into carnal delights and just keep the tension and desire going.
you gave it up to easy? or maybe she has found a new interest to per sue
or maybe shes missed her monthly friend and shes freaked out and cant talk to you about it .
2007-12-15 06:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by becker-lisa@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have put the brakes on because she is hesitant, scared, of a relationship going bad. Or, she's scared because such a wonderful relationship really is happening!
On the flip side, however, too many fish in the sea...and a shark may have caught her eye....
You'll know soon enough!
Elysabeth...poemhunter
2007-12-15 06:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Elysabeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do to gross her out? Did you not make a big deal about giving her a Christmas present? I hope you didn't talk with your mouth full at Thanksgiving, so that she has to keep you away from the boss and her parents during the holidays....
2007-12-15 06:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by roadrunner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the sex was to fast.men need to learn to slow things down they get all into wanting to have sex & it ruins the realtionship for some women.I know i just had a guy that was all wanting to talk about it & we had one conversation before that so i just thought nope NOT going there and now we are through!
2007-12-15 06:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is a girl who likes the initial relationship rush. Once the first week or two are over she is done. No more chasing, no more newness so she moved on. Sorry.
2007-12-15 06:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) she's just not that into you
2) maybe she didn't enjoy sex as much as you think she did (women fake that crap all of the time)
3)she found someone she liked better
4)you screwed up-didn't listen, didn't respond appropriately, forgot a special date
5)you're creeping her out now...
ASK her
2007-12-15 06:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Candy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...have you done something to annoy her??..
or maybe somebody have been talking s*** about you and she believed..
or maybe she just want you to run after her or she wants you to do exactly what you ARE doing rigth now...thinking about her and possible reasons all the time...
women sometimes just wanna be interesting...
if you really like her ask her what the problem is (if she goes on acting like that just tell her you arent into this childish game) ..if you think she aint worth it just forget about it!!
2007-12-15 06:22:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋